Our Staff and Volunteer Spotlights are a chance for you to get to know some of the individuals who work tirelessly to help others in our communities as employees and volunteers of Someplace Safe.
May 2022 Staff Spotlight: Brianna Stoltenburg
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been with Parenting Time Centers for 14 years and currently work as the Scheduler. I work mostly from the Fergus Falls office, however, I do fill in at all centers. Perham, Morris, Glenwood and Ortonville.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do something for someone every day that they cannot possibly pay you back for.
Favorite or dream place to live: Not sure it’s my favorite but I’ve lived in Minnesota all my life!
I'm happiest when: I'm helping others
I'm proudest of: My family. My daughters aged 14, 11, 9, 6 and my son aged 2, and my husband.
People would be surprised to know: I went to school for Estiology, (The training of skin care, make up applications and hair removal) before I went to Alexandria Technical College and received my AA in Child Development.
Pet peeves: Artificial flowers being planted in the ground.
Favorite Song: Anything Pop or Rock
Favorite Movie: Documentaries or True Crime
Favorite Book: Ghosts from the Nursery by Robin Karr-Morse
Favorite or Dream Vacation: One day I’d like to go to the Maldives, my favorite spot I’ve vacationed in is Orlando, FL. We had a great family vacation at Wisconsin Dells last summer.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means Safety. It means that the individuals using these services are receiving safe services no matter if they utilize Advocacy, Parenting Time Centers or Thrift Stores.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: ’d like the community to know that Parenting Times Centers are a much-needed asset in the communities they are located in. At Parenting Time Centers, we make sure the children are safe at all times whether through Parenting Times or Safe Exchanges. Many parents that utilize our centers would not otherwise be able to have access to be with their children. We also provide Nurturing Parenting Skills through The Nurturing Parenting Program.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I enjoy the team atmosphere.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Getting to work alongside the Director of Parenting Time Centers, opportunities to grow my knowledge through training and being able to assist with scheduling and being a safe person for children
April 2022 Staff Spotlight: Colby Benson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: About two months as a Crime Victim Advocate in the Douglas County office
Motto or Personal Mantra: "It's all risky!" -Jim Rohn
Favorite or dream place to live: Banff, Canada
I'm happiest when: Doing anything in the outdoors, especially when I'm with family!
What I fear most: Heights
I'm proudest of: The path I have taken in order to be where I am now
Favorite Song: I love all Music!
Favorite Movie: "Up"
Favorite Book: Nature's Allies by Larry Nielsen
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Went to Lake of the Ozarks which I knew nothing about, turned out to be one of my favorite vacations of all time.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: There are many more organizations out there like Someplace Safe that want to help those in need! We will do our absolute best to help you directly or find a resource that is more beneficial for you.
March 2022 Spotlight Staff: Autumn Johnson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Started as a Crime Victim Advocate in Stevens County in February
Motto or Personal Mantra: Everything comes around and works out in the end, one way or another. Stress won't change the outcome.
Favorite or dream place to live: Minnesota, but with only 2 months of winter
I'm happiest when: I'm spending time with my friends and my dog
What I fear most: Losing what is important to me
I'm proudest of: Myself, for pursuing happiness
Pet peeves: Little pieces of tape left on tables and people not using their turn signal/blinker
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Anywhere warm, sunny, and out of the city - preferably with a beach!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe to me represents an organization that is there for others, unconditionally. To me, Someplace Safe represents some of the good in society- kindness, openness, and support.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: You can always reach out and see what support and resources are available to you, you just need to ask. There is no shame or judgement when you need help. Someplace Safe has a lot to offer through support or volunteering!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Working for an organization I believe in and a cause I support and knowing I am directly able to help people
February 2022 Volunteer Spotlight: Gary Taylor
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I've been serving on the Board for a little over a year.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Love God & Love Neighbor – and everyone is a neighbor.
Favorite or dream place to live: Wherever I happen to be is the best place.
I'm proudest of: My four grandchildren
People would be surprised to know: That I own and play trumpet, cornet, flugelhorn, French horn, guitar, bass guitar, and a number of other instruments.
Favorite Song: No one favorite but I love the Eagles, Doobie Brothers, Chicago, Earth Wind & Fire, Chase, Blood Sweat & Tears.
Favorite Movie: All three Matrix and maybe the fourth.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: “Violence Unveiled: Humanity at the Crossroads” by Gil Bailie
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Helping those who need help, protection, and guidance.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We must find a way to end the violence of our world – in our home, in our communities, and in our world. Until that time, we must protect the vulnerable, find resources for that protection, and teach those that resort to violence that there is a better way.
January 2022 Staff Spotlight: Becki Jordan
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Nearly 15 years in total
Motto or Personal Mantra: "You're never too much for the right people"
Favorite or dream place to live: I love traveling in general. Anywhere new and different is always exciting.
I'm happiest when: I'm laughing with my family and friends
I'm proudest of: My children, my kind heart, and my ability to continue to overcome life's challenges
People would be surprised to know: I am naturally an introvert and need alone time to recharge - I'm also a procrastinator, but that might be a surprise to some!
Pet peeves: Not having a plan!!
Favorite Song: "Soul One" - Blind Melon
Favorite Movie: Grease
Favorite Book: WAY TOO MANY to count..
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I hope to get to Hawaii someday
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A group of dedicated individuals who are truly committed to supporting victims on their journeys - truly life changing!
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: As far as dedication to not only their mission, but their communities - Someplace Safe is one of the BEST!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I appreciate the continued opportunity for personal and professional growth while making such positive impacts in the lives of so many
December 2021 Staff Spotlight: Ashley Henrich
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Was here in 2018-2019 and just came back in August of 2021
Motto or Personal Mantra: Self discipline: Making my bed every morning, not hitting snooze, doing all the little things I don't want to do because they are needed to make the future life I want
Favorite or dream place to live: Colorado is my favorite place to be!
I'm happiest when: I'm with my family or in the mountains!
I'm proudest of: My Children
Pet peeves: People not being honest and not following through with things
Favorite Song: Any Morgan Wallen or Kevin Gates
Favorite Movie: The Guardian
Favorite Book: Untamed by Glennon Doyle
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Colorado! Anywhere
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Voice of reason, tender, open arms and compassion
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Be gentle! You don't know what people are going though
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I really enjoy helping people and making a difference in a person's life - even if by being a listening ear
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: The challenge, My co-workers, Being back where I grew up
November 2021 Volunteer Spotlight: Donna Eul
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 Months - Volunteer at Morris Thrift Store
Motto or Personal Mantra: Don't worry about the small stuff
Favorite or dream place to live: Wherever my family lives
I'm happiest when: I'm spending time with my family or riding my motorcycle
What I fear most: Heights. I don't like heights.
I'm proudest of: My Children
Pet peeves: Complainers. Crabby people.
Favorite Song: "The Dance" by Garth Brooks
Favorite Movie: "A League of Their Own"
Favorite Book: I'm not much of a reader..
Favorite or Dream Vacation: An all-inclusive resort on a beach somewhere warm.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a valuable asset to our communities. I'm proud to help them help those in need.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Volunteers and employees at the Thrift Store work hard to provide quality items to the sales floor. Once an item is inspected and/or cleaned, it is priced under retail prices. Many items are brand new and have never been used! Anyone can shop here.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Meeting new people, Making sure items o the floor are clean and in good condition, and Working with others to help those less fortunate
October 2021 Staff Spotlight: Staisha Lindahl
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 4 Years
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do more of what makes you happy.
I'm happiest when: I am with my family. I love spending time with them.
I'm proudest of: My amazing children. The strength and love they have is inspiring.
People would be surprised to know: I wanted 6 kids. I became a mom when I was just 15 years old and its been the best journey of my life.
Pet peeves: Bad Drivers
Favorite Song: Jordan Smith – Don’t Quit
Favorite Movie: Pitch Perfect
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Going to Hawaii
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Hope, a chance for a fresh start, that support system needed when going through a rough time.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe is not just for Women and Children. We help anyone who is/ has been a victim of crime. No matter your age, sex, or orientation.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I love working for this organization because I am a small piece of helping people that come here. I may be more behind the scenes, but I know that I am apart of helping people when they are at there lowest point.
September 2021 Volunteer Spotlight: Arlene Cossette
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Many years!
Motto or Personal Mantra: Just keep trying. You will get things done.
Favorite or dream place to live: Denver, CO. I love to go to the mountains and old towns.
I'm happiest when: My Great-grandchildren named me GiGi and come running up to me and say "GiGi" and give me a hug.
What I fear most: Getting sick when I get older
I'm proudest of: Going back to school as an older than average student and passing the 7 letter-word Algebra
People would be surprised to know: I was good in softball and in school was ok. While at NDSCS, a few students saw me at lunch and invited me to play 3 on 3 basketball. I had fun!
Pet peeves: People who think they don't accept your beliefs and think they know better. Sometimes I see myself doing this same thing, so I need to work on this too!
Favorite Song: On Eagles Wings
Favorite Movie: Tammy with Debbie Renolds
Favorite Book: Lauraine Snelling series
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Going to Washington D.C. to visit all of the history.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It helps people survive in bad situations. There is help, just call - that is the hardest!
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We don't turn anyone away.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Meeting lots of people.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: I love working at Someplace Safe!
August 2021 Volunteer Spotlight: Jina Marlow
Motto or Personal Mantra: “Ask yourself what you could do to make situations less difficult. Do it, even if you think you shouldn't have to."
Favorite or dream place to live: Vermont
I'm happiest when: I'm doing something creative
What I fear most: I used to be afraid of heights. So afraid that I struggled to stand on a chair to change a lightbulb. During a trip to Mexico, a member of our group made a grave error when booking an excursion. The accidental selection involved being suspended 328 feet above ground, free falling, and swinging like a pendulum along the canyon floor at 75 mph. I’m not afraid of heights anymore.
Pet peeves: Complaints without solutions!
Favorite Song: "Ophelia" by The Band
Favorite Movie: Amelie
Favorite Book: "Lisey's Story" by Steven King
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Dubrovnik, Croatia
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: I was formerly employed by Someplace Safe as manager of the Morris Thrift Store. I missed dedicating my time to this non-profit that offers so much value to surrounding communities. I’m very grateful for the opportunity to be a part of this impactful organization again.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Many people know Someplace Safe as a resource for victims of domestic violence and sexual assault. Someplace Safe offers so much more than that! Advocacy services are available to victims and survivors of any crime; the Parenting Time Center program provides families with a safe, neutral location for family visitation; and the Safe Harbor program supports sexually exploited and trafficked youth.
July 2021 Employee Spotlight: Latasha Scott
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 4 months
Motto or Personal Mantra: Just Breathe. Everything happens for a reason.
Favorite or dream place to live: Favorite place I’ve lived would have to be Alaska.
I'm happiest when: I am helping others and when I am with my family.
What I fear most: Being misunderstood.
I'm proudest of: Me. I have overcome a lot in my life, and I am proud of what I have achieved so far. I am also very proud of my children and who they are becoming. They have huge hearts and show so much compassion for others.
People would be surprised to know: I absolutely hate having my picture taken. I went into labor in 2008 with my oldest son in the middle of the biggest snowstorm MN/ND had seen in a long time. My hospital room was packed with news crews to cover the story about “the baby born in a snowstorm”.
Pet peeves: Rude people
Favorite Song: Scars by I am They
Favorite Movie: War Room
Favorite Book: The Shack
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Ireland
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A group of individuals who are passionate about helping others and go above and beyond to help their clients. A safe space for victims to go to meet with an advocate to receive support and resources to become safe and healthy.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This work is important! This work provides safety, support, and resources for victims of crime. This work provides victims with an advocate to help them through what could be the hardest time in that person’s life. An advocate stands up for the victim’s rights and makes sure the victim has all the resources needed to become safe and healthy.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: My co-workers are great! I love that there is so much focus on sale-care. I love being able to help people through difficult times in their lives.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: I am still pretty new to this position, but some of the highlights include: Helping my first client and getting my first order granted!
June 2021 Employee Spotlight: Jeanine Thompson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 10 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: "Always bear in mind that you have your own resolution to succeed is more important than any other." - Abraham Lincoln
I'm happiest when: I can help others.
What I fear most: I don't like spiders or snakes.
I'm proudest of: Raising all of my children and how they have made choices in life.
People would be surprised to know: How old I am.
Pet peeves: People who say they are going to do something, then aren't committed to doing it.
Favorite Song: Anything classic rock and Contemporary Christian.
Favorite Movie: Pride & Prejudice, Wind River, Illusionist
Favorite Book: Bible
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Anywhere I can just go to relax; sometimes it's just sitting at the end of the dock.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: There is no cookie cutter design to assist those who we provide services to; it is self-identified by those who we provide services to. Someplace Safe provides services to everyone; regardless of age, gender, gender identity, race, religion, or financial status.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Bringing others hope, hope is not giving up! When someone reaches a goal, no matter how small that may be! Presenting and brining awareness and prevention education to our young people because they are our future!
May 2021 Employee Spotlight: Katie DeNoble
Motto or Personal Mantra: “Live Simply”
I'm happiest when: When I’m at the races or watching my daughters figure skate.
What I fear most: Winter driving!
I'm proudest of: Everything my children have accomplished.
People would be surprised to know: My son and husband race vintage snowmobiles in the winter time with an ice oval circuit. My son is the 2021 Junior World Class Champion!
Pet peeves: Loud chewing! Yuck!
Favorite Song: Don’t Stop Believing (Journey)
Favorite Movie: The Wedding Planner
Favorite Book: I honestly haven’t read a book for fun in years…
Favorite or Dream Vacation: A dream vacation for me would be just anywhere with a beach, blue skies, warm temps and no responsibilities of any kind.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: No matter what the situation is that you are currently going through, we are here for you every step of the way. Your safety is our priority.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I encourage everyone to learn more about what Someplace Safe has to offer and the many great services we provide, even if it’s just looking through the website. Volunteer, apply for a job, take a chance to be part of these great stores/offices because you won’t regret it!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I have great co-workers who make the job fun, along with getting the chance to hang out with some great families!
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Seeing relationships strengthen. Knowing I made a difference keeping children/domestic assault victims safe during their visits. Watching children have a fun safe time with their family members.
April Volunteer Spotlight: Becky Tripp
Motto or Personal Mantra: I'm not sure I have a motto or mantra. I believe in working hard and doing the best I can.
I'm happiest when: The sun is shining and it's warm outside.
What I fear most: Suffocating
I'm proudest of: Setting a strong example for the people in my life.
People would be surprised to know: I have 2 hairless cats, Freya and Loki.
Pet peeves: When I'm watching TV with someone and they want to start watching a movie in the middle.
Favorite Song: Bon Jovi "It's my Life"
Favorite Movie: Fifth Element
Favorite Book: Hunger Games
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I like taking cruises in the Caribbean
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a valuable resource for the community I work in. As a Social Worker, my co-workers and I refer people to Someplace Safe programs.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe is an important resource in our communities. I don’t think the general population understands how much work is done by advocates and volunteers to help support people experiencing domestic violence, sexual assault, abuse, and difficulties with safe parenting exchanges.
March 2021 Employee Spotlight: Melissa Schroeder
Length of time with Someplace Safe: One year.
Motto or Personal Mantra: You never know what someone else is going through, so love anyway.
Favorite or dream place to live: By the water
I'm happiest when: I can be outside and enjoy fresh air. Especially if I can enjoy the fresh air with the people I love.
What I fear most: Loosing someone I love.
I'm proudest of: Overcoming all of my mistakes.
People would be surprised to know: My grandmother is my role model, she has more spunk than I do and she is 100 years old.
Pet peeves: Rude people
Favorite Song: Me & My Bobby McGee by Janis Joplin
Favorite Movie: Almost Famous
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Rome, Italy
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I think reaching out and asking for help is the hardest part of any challenge but it can also be the biggest step toward peace.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I have always been passionate about helping people, so I love knowing that Someplace Safe makes a difference in the lives of individuals and the community as a whole.
February 2021 Employee Spotlight: Leonora Woods
Length of time with Someplace Safe: October 2020
Motto or Personal Mantra: I can do this!
Favorite or dream place to live: My dream vacation is be with my entire family in one place at one time. You see my family is all over. I have family in Canada, Japan and Philippines so it is very rare for us to be together at one time. That is why that is my dream vacation.
I'm happiest when: I know I helped somebody and when I am with my whole entire family back in the Philippines.
What I fear most: Driving in winter.
I'm proudest of: Being Asian and the person I have become.
People would be surprised to know: I don't like watching the same movie twice.
Pet peeves: People who don't respect privacy.
Favorite Song: Through the years by Kenny Rogers
Favorite Movie: A walk to remember
Favorite Book: Notebook
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It is a place/haven to where you can go with no judgement, you can be yourself and will welcome you with open arms. A place to where advocates are there to help.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This work is all about helping victims of crimes and that all the advocates are here more than willing to go above and beyond to help them in any shape or form.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Being able to help people who don't know where to turn.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Seeing people smile, self satisfaction, humility
January 2021 Employee Spotlight: Jenna Schiller
Motto or Personal Mantra: Always speak the truth, even if your voice shakes.
Favorite or dream place to live: Greece!
I'm happiest when: My husband and I have all our kids home or together at the same time!
What I fear most: Heights
I'm proudest of: Myself. I have worked very hard to become the person I am able to be today.
People would be surprised to know: I donated ¾ of my liver to my step mom in 2016. (it was a successful donation, she is well!)
Pet peeves: People talking really loud or chewing with their mouths open.
Favorite Song: A Thousand Years, Christina Perri
Favorite Movie: Fried Green Tomatoes
Favorite Book: A child called It.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Greece!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Safety, Support and Resources.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: It takes a whole community to work together to be able to provide victims with the support they need to feel safe and be healthy, we may be a victim’s first contact but without having other agencies and people in the community also working towards a safe community, we couldn’t do all that we fortunately do have to offer people.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I just recently started, but I love being able to assist and support victims during and difficult, confusing or scary time to know that we care about their safety.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Wonderful work environment and co workers and administration that care about you and your well being. Getting to work with a variety of people with different skill sets and passions. Getting to be a part of a wide collaboration of counties to work together to make a healthy and safe community for everyone.
December 2020 - Employee Spotlight: Lillian D
Motto or Personal Mantra: Always Live Life To Its Fullest
I'm happiest when: When I am spending time with my family or helping someone in need.
What I fear most: death
I'm proudest of: My children, they always seem to amaze me.
People would be surprised to know: I am nervous to speak in front of public or in front of a group of people.
Pet peeves: Bullying
Favorite Song: I love all kinds of music. I listen to everything. I have too many favorites.
Favorite Movie: I like all kinds of movies.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Bora Bora with my family.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: When the kids and family are at the center, I feel they are safe and can enjoy their visit. I love that Someplace Safe is open to the community can can help anyone that can use our services.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That the word needs to get out about all the services Someplace Safe has to offer. It's a very rewarding job knowing you are helping someone, it's also and emotional job at times.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I love being able to monitor visits so families can see each other in a safe environment.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Seeing the smile on the families faces when they see each other. Helping families so they can see each other in a safe environment. Knowing I am making a difference even if it's small difference.
November 2020 - Employee Spotlight: Anne LaFrinier-Ritchie
I'm happiest when: I’m connecting with others on things I’m passionate about
What I fear most: Spiders!
I'm proudest of: being selected to participate in the National Human Trafficking Technical Assistance Center’s Human Trafficking Leadership Academy, which I graduated from on 9/10/20!
People would be surprised to know: I’m an introvert and public speaking makes me nervous!
Pet peeves: Dirty floors/walking barefoot
Favorite Song: Just Ask, Lake Street Dive
Favorite Movie: Ghostbusters
Favorite Book: Anything by Lindy West
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Chicago!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is an amazing organization, and the leadership is so fantastic. I feel so fortunate and proud every day that I’m able to be part of such an amazing organization that provides such high quality and necessary work to those in need in our communities.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That advocacy in and of itself is really community and societal work. There are things that are happening in our broader communities and across our society that lead to violence, and our communities can work together to change these things!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I really love all of the staff and their unique backgrounds, passions, and strengths. It’s an amazing team to be a part of.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Being able to travel to work with multiple communities on responding to victims of exploitation and trafficking, providing education around trafficking—most specifically what communities as a whole can do to protect our vulnerable populations and prevent trafficking, and the connections made with Safe Harbor providers across the state—we are all united to do this difficult work!
October 2020 - Volunteer Spotlight: Tara Klostreich
Motto or Personal Mantra: “Be the light you wish to receive”
Favorite or dream place to live: Bahamas
I'm happiest when: I am with my family or giving to someone in need.
What I fear most: Heights!
I'm proudest of: The accomplishments I have made in my career providing local journalism to our communities.
People would be surprised to know: I am very insecure.
Pet peeves: Bullying
Favorite Song: Humble and Kind – Tim McGraw
Favorite Movie: Grease and Footloose
Favorite Book: She Moves On: Rising From Regret – Susan Vandenheuvel
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Our local community benefits from the resources of this organization. Victims are able to have a safe, non-judgmental zone to heal and grow.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I enjoy giving to those in need. Someplace Safe is an integral part of our community.
September 2020 Volunteer Spotlight: Rilee Moulton
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 8 months as a Board Member
Favorite or dream place to live: Some of my favorite places to visit are Winnipeg, Duluth, and Colorado. My wife and I visit family, camp, attend festivals, and love new adventures.
I'm happiest when: Reading or cooking. Also spending time with my family.
What I fear most: Spiders
People would be surprised to know: That my sourdough starter (name: Yoshi) is a member of my family.
Pet peeves: Loud chewing, people moving things in my kitchen.
Favorite Song: "When You Believe" by Mariah Carey and Whitney Houston
Favorite Movie: Sorry to Bother You
Favorite Book: The Broken Earth Trilogy by N.K. Jemisin
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Scotland, Iceland, or Indonesia
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is such an important resource in the communities we serve because it is accessible to all people -- victims of crime are able to receive help in an equitable, non-judgmental, and confidential environment.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe is helping people in our communities in rural Minnesota. All of the time and money put into this organization directly impacts and improves lives in our local communities.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I am proud to be serving an organization that benefits people in my community and the surrounding communities. I am grateful for the opportunity to have worked for Someplace Safe as a manager of the Morris Thrift Store and now as a board member knowing that the time I put in is directly helping people.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Knowing that I am directly impacting my community. Working with a fun executive board of directors. Getting to expand my knowledge of how non-profit organizations work.
August 2020 Employee Spotlight: Stacy Magbee
Motto or Personal Mantra: Never be afraid to take an adventure. It may be the best chapter of your life.
I'm happiest when: There is good music playing and I am singing
What I fear most: Well there are a couple things. One mice. Two snakes. Three, Failing.
I'm proudest of: My son, I was a single mother, I raised him alone and he is a really great man now.
Pet peeves: Money not all facing the same direction
Favorite Song: You Say by Lauren Daigle
Favorite Movie: Steele Magnolias
Favorite Book: The Harry Potter Series
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Going to Ireland
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It means that victims/survivors of abuse in any form have a safe place to go and seek assistance. I have the knowledge that there is a place out there to offer these things to victims.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: It is very important, and it is always good for the victim/survivor of any crime of violence to know that it was not their fault in any way?
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Meeting different people that come into the store to shop and working with the great staff that is here at the Alexandria Thrift Store.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Meeting new people, learning what someplace safe is truly about, and this wonderful staff.
July 2020 Employee Spotlight: Sherrie Wilken
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Almost 2 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: God is good. There is good in everyone but sometimes you have to look pretty hard. Kindness matters.
Favorite or dream place to live: Always changes, right now I would like a new house (brand new) in a grove of trees, by the river, with a huge lawn and flower garden.
I'm happiest when: I’m with my children, beautiful day, reading a good book (which I got here) Having a glass of wine with my friends.
What I fear most: Not being there when I’m needed. Also, mosquitoes (LOL).
I'm proudest of: My family
People would be surprised to know: When I was 9 months old, I had open heart surgery to sew one of the valves shut.
Pet peeves: Mean people who think they are nice. Shopping carts in the parking lots. Crabby waitresses or waiters who think they still deserve a big tip.
Favorite Song: I’d really like to see you tonight (Seals & Croft)
Favorite Movie: We were the Titans
Favorite Book: Wish you Well by Baldwin
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Maybe Europe or Australia, I’m really not a worldwide traveler type person.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Giving and understanding
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: 14. That your donations do make a difference in the life of a person. Your unwanted items help an abused person (family) make a new start. Help families come together.
June 2020 Volunteer Spotlight: Shelly Zach
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Volunteer for 8 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: A tradition of experience, knowledge, integrity, trust and service. I believe that you should always give back to your community. A community that has been so good to me over the years, people that know your background and family, and a place where your roots have started! I’m proud to have grown up in Breckenridge where there is always a helping hand if you need it.
Favorite or dream place to live: My dream is to winter in Florida and have the family down there for vacation. I couldn’t go a couple months without seeing my grandkids!
I'm happiest when: My favorite thing in the whole world is spending time with my grandkids Nicky, Christian, Slater, Rowan, Sawyer & Sicily, my daughter Ashley, Son Andrew & wife Neely and my husband Charlie. But I have to admit I don’t get to see them as much as I would like since Real Estate keeps me very busy.
I'm proudest of: I’m very proud of my family, Charlie and Andrew (Zach Construction) build the most beautiful homes. We currently have 3 generations at our job site with Nicky helping grandpa and uncle. Ashley is the Director of Development with Someplace Safe. We are a service family – we work hard, and we all love what we do!
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: The reason I volunteer for Someplace Safe doing the fundraisers and getting the donations, ect is to keep Wilkin County residents safe and have a place to go when they are in an abusive relationship. We need to keep Someplace Safe going not only in Wilkin County but to support the whole Someplace Safe Agency. We need to have the facilities and crisis lines available for all those who are in need. Human Trafficking which is unthinkable and awful is right here – so we need funds to fight for these people who are victims. So when you see a post on Facebook that Someplace Safe is having a fundraiser or just an awareness post, please think – What can I do to help Someplace safe and their clients.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I like knowing that the funds raised will help keep Someplace Safe available for those in need in Wilkin County and helps the other Someplace safe locations. With the Covid virus guaranteeing families together in the same house for an extended period of time, domestic violence is on the rise. I like to know that I helped in some small way, so the victims have a place to go if needed.
May 2020 Employee Spotlight: Stephanie Kelly
Length of time with Someplace Safe: For the past 10 years I have been a Parenting Time Center Monitor.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Live life to the fullest
Favorite or dream place to live: I would love to live wherever my family is, that is where I'm happiest.
I'm happiest when: I'm with my family! Or shopping.hehe
What I fear most: dying
I'm proudest of: My two children. They amaze me!
People would be surprised to know: Nothing, I'm an open book! Sometimes to open.
Pet peeves: A person smacking their food. When people are late.
Favorite Song: Love music! I have many favorites.
Favorite Movie: Never been Kissed
Favorite Book: all true crime books
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Hawaii, it is a beautiful place and enjoyed being there. Would love to live there.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It means that I can feel a sense of comfort that when the kids are at the Parenting Time Center they are safe, and happy to be spending time with family.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This work is very rewarding. It also can be very emotional at times. I enjoy the work we do and believe it is beneficial and that the word needs to be put out there about the services we provide, and how helpful they can be for all parties involved.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: ? I enjoy helping families come together to visit and work on their relationships.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: The Children, the wonderful people I work for and with. The ability to provide a safe place for children to interact with family.
April 2020 Employee Spotlight : Leigh Nelson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I am a Crime Victim Advocate and have been with Someplace Safe since the beginning of January 2020.
Motto or Personal Mantra: (from Desiderate) “You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars: you have a right to be here.”
Favorite or dream place to live: When I win the lottery…..we will have a lake home, probably somewhere here in Douglas County, a home near my parents in Florida, and then my get-away in Belize!
I'm happiest when: That’s hard!! I try to make the best of wherever I am. I’m happy when I’m at my sewing machine, working on a quilt, reading a book in a beach chair by the water, sitting at a campfire with my family, paddling my kayak on a calm lake, or sitting on the couch with my 3 dogs piled on me.
What I fear most: I really try to face my fears head on and do what scares me. That being said some things are our of our control! One of my biggest fears is a house fire- I’m a freak about leaving candles & space heaters unattended….
I'm proudest of: Raising a son with autism.
People would be surprised to know: I’m a bit of a daredevil. I used to scuba dive all the time and was certified as a rescue diver. I’ve gone zip-lining in Honduras (which is a tale of its own!), used to go caving (yes-crawling through caves with a flashlight on your head), rock climbing & rappelling, cavern diving, and have swam with sharks. I would like to go sky diving but haven’t had the chance.
Pet peeves: Gum cracking makes me want to crawl out of my skin!
Favorite Song: Louis Armstrong- “What a Wonderful World”, “Three Little Birds” by Bob Marley, & Jason Mraz – “Have it All”
Favorite Movie: I’ll drop everything for “Steel Magnolias” or “Fried Green Tomatoes”
Favorite Book: A poem, really – “Desiderata”
Favorite or Dream Vacation: So many places….I have a wonderer’s heart, and LOVE to travel. Cruising has been my favorite so far. I do enjoy unpacking once, falling asleep to the smell of the ocean, and waking up in amazing new locations.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It’s and opportunity to offer hope to another person.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That domestic & sexual violence is far more prevalent than one would imagine. If you suspect something is wrong, you are probably right Say something. Do something!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I am blown away by our own advocacy community within Someplace Safe. I feel like there is always another advocate available to answer a question, give me advice & offer support. I can’t say how many times I’ve heard “call me anytime-day or night”!
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Being bear hugged by a client for helping her. Getting my first orders signed off on by a judge. Third highlight? Still working on that one!
March 2020 Employee Spotlight : Chris Koplin
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Been here for just over four months
Motto or Personal Mantra: Be the change in the world you want to see! And your world is your bond!
Favorite or dream place to live: Favorite place to live is Minnesota, love to hunt and fish, no better place for it.
I'm happiest when: I'm sitting by the fire pit, with country music playing, the stars are out, a cold beer in my hand and my German shepherd husky cross Gracie Lou laying next to me. It doesn't get any better.
What I fear most: Fear, fear unsettles you and clouds your mind and judgement, so I fear, fear.
I'm proudest of: Being a published author, I was published back in high school, one of my poems made it into a national poetry book.
People would be surprised to know: I am also a professional gamer and have won more than a dozen tournaments with my gaming clan.
Pet peeves: When asked if you want to go out to dinner, you ask what they want, they say "I don't know", you pick for them, and they complain it was not what they wanted.
Favorite Song: The Dance by Garth Brooks. Helped my get through my grandfathers death.
Favorite Movie: Robin Hood Prince of Thieve (Kevin Costner, Morgan Freeman, and Alan Rickman, has everything, drama, love story, a touch of comedy and awesome action.)
Favorite Book: The Dragonlance Chronicles, (Trilogy of books, Dragons of Autumn Twilight, Dragons of Winter Night, and Dragons of Spring Dawning). Read them so many times I have had to buy new copies when the old ones fall apart.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Now I think a week or two in the Florida and the keys, of course hit up the new Star Wars place at Disney World, May the force be with you!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It is a place that gives hope to those who thought there was none, a place that has help in peoples darkest times, a place that is safe and works to keep people safe so they can find their happiness and leave their fear behind.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This is needed more than ever in our world that seems to be getting darker, that we are here to help as best as we can each and everyday. That we help people cause maybe we have been there, and because we really truly care!
February 2020 Employee Spotlight : Alison Francis
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Since September 9th 2019.
Motto or Personal Mantra: "Moving on - Pressing on!"
Favorite or dream place to live: Dublin, Ireland (a dream place)
I'm happiest when: When I'm with my family - People, dogs, cats......
What I fear most: Heights, tidal waves, and open staircases.
I'm proudest of: When I think of pride, I think of something I've had a hand in. I am proud of some knitting projects I've created. I do a little writing and I'm proud of some of it. I am proud of the life my husband and I have worked towards in west central Minnesota.
People would be surprised to know: If I had my way, every meal would be served with a vast selection of pickles.
Pet peeves: Please take time to correctly screw on the lids of jars. Please.
Favorite Song: Beat of Burden, The Rolling Stones.
Favorite Movie: JAWS
Favorite Book: Pillars of the Earth, Ken Follet
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I would love three weeks in Ireland, with a car and a map.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Working at Someplace Safe has reminded me how rewarding work can be. I am part of a larger team of smart, dedicated people who are committed to helping others in a way that is mindful of dignity and respect each of our journeys deserve. The work we do is important and at times, heavy but working for Someplace Safe is an outlet for me and has helped me bring parts of my life in greater balance. I am proud to be a part of the work we do.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I wish folks knew how often crime touches the lives of their neighbors and the negative impact it creates. I think this understanding would bring greater compassion and that's a good thing. I also wish our community had a better understanding of the different services, partnerships, and educational opportunities Someplace Safe works to offer and maintain.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: The constant changes and challenges in my day help to keep me engaged, sharp, and on my toes. Really, I enjoy just about every aspect of my job!
December 2019 Employee Spotlight: Bridgett Karels
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Almost 5 months
Motto or Personal Mantra: Askin's free! (asking is free)
Favorite or dream place to live: Somewhere near Target
I'm happiest when: I'm shopping at Target
What I fear most: Never getting to go to Target again. Also, spiders.
I'm proudest of: Leaving Target without spending a fortune.
People would be surprised to know: I'm allergic to pineapple.
Pet peeves: Dish soap that doesn't smell like dish soap (eg: lavender, orange, New Zealand mountain rain). People who don't turn on their headlights when its snowing/raining.
Favorite Song: Total Eclipse of the Heart - Bonnie Tyler
Favorite Movie: Dead Snow or the Little Mermaid
Favorite Book: Too many to choose just one!
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I would love to explore Scandinavia!! Get me a ticket to Finland, Iceland, Norway...Whichever
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a pillar of the communities we serve. Working here and helping crime victims navigate their circumstances is one of the most rewarding and fulfilling occupations I have held. Someplace Safe isn't just an office or an advocate, or a parenting time appointment. As an organization, we are able to provide services that ensure safety and well being of clients, a space (be it physical or emotional) for clients to speak their truth, and opportunities for clients, employees, and communities to grow.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Crime does not discriminate. There is no telling what may happen, and to whom. Needs are as varied as the clients, crimes, and stories themselves. You never know that you're going to need until you need it. What do you use everyday that you take or granted? Toilet paper? A toothbrush? Hair brush? Menstrual products? It's those every day thing that become a saving grace when difficult circumstances hit.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Helping other is what I've always wanted to do. Assisting victims with whatever they may need is extremely fulfilling.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Giving back to my community, helping others in their time of need, making a difference in the the world, one person at a time.
November 2019 Volunteer Spotlight: Maryann Lustila
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I am an intern at the Douglas Advocacy Office from St. Cloud State, with the social work program. I am currently working as a PCA and am a student with St. Cloud State.
Motto or Personal Mantra: "I can and I will"
Favorite or dream place to live: I want to retire someday and live next to a lake in Northern Minnesota.
I'm happiest when: When I am doing water aerobics or reading.
I'm proudest of: My three sons and how they have become wonderful sons, husbands, and dads.
People would be surprised to know: I am a die-hard fan of "The Walking Dead".
Favorite Song: Jesus Take the Wheel
Favorite Movie: Footloose, the orginal
Favorite Book: Too many to count, however Susan Elizabeth Phillips and Lisa Gardner are two of my favorite authors.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: My dream vacation is taking a month-long tour of the British Isles and return to the United States by cruise ship.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means to me, New Beginnings. I see Someplace Safe as a new beginning for clients that they serve, clients walk through the doors of Someplace Safe with dented self-esteem, and little hope. They leave with a sense of empowerment and hope for a new beginning.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I would like the communities of the counties we serve at Someplace Safe to know, Someplace Safe is a valuable resource within their communities and ask them to continue to support Someplace Safe within their community, because Someplace Safe is working to make their counties a safer place to live and raise families in.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I enjoy advocating the most, I enjoy getting to know and serving clients.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: A. Participating in the awareness walk for domestic abuse. B. To be a part of the women's empowerment group. C. The staff has been so wonderful in helping me become an Advocate.
October 2019 Staff Spotlight: Rachel Novak
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 weeks
Motto or Personal Mantra: “Let go of who you think you’re supposed to be; embrace who you are.” and “There is no innovation and creativity without failure.” And all other insightful words of Brene Brown! I am a big believer in not acting out of fear of failure and that being vulnerable shows strength not weakness.
Favorite or dream place to live: A small acreage to be surrounded by nature and to have space to foster rescue dogs.
I'm happiest when: Whenever I am spending quality time with my partner, Cory, and our dogs.
What I fear most: I cannot think of any overarching fears, but I am not a fan of heights!
I'm proudest of: Where I am today. Through changing my life over time I found a lot of incredible people and communities to be here now, with my wonderful partner and our goofy dogs, working for an organization that aligns with my passions.
People would be surprised to know: I was a college basketball player and continue to coach but I also majored in Fine Arts. My free time is often split between the creative and athletics world. Although they are seemingly separate interests to others, I see my worlds of arts, athletics, and advocacy all being connected and rounding me out as a person.
Pet peeves: When people who are unhappy try to bring others down with them and mansplaining.
Favorite Song: Feeling Good by Nina Simone
Favorite Movie: Comedy: Gross Pointe Blank, Drama: The Secret Garden, Romance: Pride and Prejudice, True Story: Wind River
Favorite Book: This is always changing, currently it is Quiet by Susan Cain.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: A pilgrimage to Machu Picchu.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: I love that I am in role where I will have the opportunity to work directly with victims. Working with victims has a ripple effect from the victim, to their family, to the community that positively supports and educates people. The work we do here and the awareness we create helps set up future generations.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe is here for any victims of crime regardless of age or gender. It is important for victims to know their options and to be connected to resources. It is also important for the community to have a better understanding of the types of victimization because it happens in every community. Education is important for prevention and for the reporting of crimes to take place.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Someplace Safe is a place where anyone who has been victimized can come as they are and be connected with people who are going to prioritize them after an experience that hurt them. It is a place built on support, where the people here have the best intentions and work hard for every person that walks in.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: I am still training but the three things I am looking forward to the most is being able to help support people during difficult moments in their lives, to be a part of support and empowerment groups, and to become better connected to the community.
September 2019 Staff Spotlight: Anita Mycke
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 1.5 years - Crime Victim Advocate in Perham
Motto or Personal Mantra: Choose joy
I'm happiest when: I'm with my kids, or outside enjoying nature.
I'm proudest of: All that I've learned in this job through the past year.
People would be surprised to know: I started a non-profit 3 years ago that pairs a child with a horse.
Favorite Song: Road Less Traveled
Favorite Movie: The Shack
Favorite Book: The Circle Maker
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Nashville, TN or riding horses on a beach by the ocean
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We don't just help women and children but also men. We also work with may other organizations to help meet the clients' needs.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I love helping people and getting connected to all the amazing resources in our community.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Helping people 2. Co-workers 3. Working in my community
August 2019 Staff Spotlight: Hayley Dorman
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 3 years - Someplace Safe Alexandria Thrift Store
Motto or Personal Mantra: All we can do is our best the rest is up to God.
Favorite or dream place to live: Somewhere with lots of space to run and be creative - nature, forests, and lakes.
I'm happiest when: I am spending time with my family or helping others.
I'm proudest of: My children, myself as a mother.
People would be surprised to know: I have two beautiful children ages 6 and 8.
Pet peeves: People acting unkind toward others.
Favorite Song: "You are my sunshine"
Favorite Movie: The Lion King original
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means a great deal to me. Its my personal mission to help others and do my part in making the world a better place. At Someplace Safe I feel fulfilled in helping my community and giving back. Someplace Safe has helped me and some people very close to me.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We really strive to do our best in helping others or referring clients to places in our community that could also be useful.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Someplace Safe is not only a place of employment for me but also a second family. A close knit group of individuals with the biggest hearts who work very closely and very well together in a fun loving environment.
July 2019 Staff Spotlight: Mike Blumer
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 8 years - Someplace Safe Alexandria Thrift Store
Motto or Personal Mantra: Try to treat people better than I would like to be treated.
Favorite or dream place to live: Here
I'm happiest when: Me and my wife do something together.
I'm proudest of: Family
Pet peeves: The way people drive.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I have been all over the USA.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means helping people in our community.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: 1. Helping people 2. I enjoy the people I work with - they do a great job and that is why I work at the Thrift Store.
June 2019 Employee Spotlight: Trista Hodges
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 1 month
Motto or Personal Mantra: "A goal without a plan is just a wish!"
Favorite or dream place to live: After living in many states as well as living overseas I am happy to be HOME! Breckenridge is a wonderful community.
I'm happiest when: I am spending time with my family and friends that are like family.
I'm proudest of: My children!!
People would be surprised to know: I lived in Panama City, Panama for 4 years.
Pet peeves: People crunching their food!
Favorite Song: Shallow - Lady Gaga
Favorite Movie: Sweet Home Alabama
Favorite or Dream Vacation: New York City during fashion week.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a place that can help an individual take the first step in rebuilding their life. We are here to support victims by providing them resources to live independently free of violence.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe is a valuable resource for men, women and children. Our community is not exempt from multiple areas of violence. Someplace Safe has programs that men, women and children can benefit from when they are in their darkest place. I would like to play a role in educating the community about the signs of violence.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I am excited to be a part of the Someplace Safe family, I am learning everyday from the incredible people that I work with. I am looking forward to becoming the voice for those that are living in fear. Providing them with the resources that they need to live in a safe environment free from violence.
May 2019 Employee Spotlight: Amber Johnson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Nearly 3 months as a Crime Victim Advocate in Pope County.
Motto or Personal Mantra: A river cuts through a rock not because of it's power but its persistence.
Favorite or dream place to live: In a cabin in the woods.
I'm happiest when: I am helping people succeed in life. Spending time with my son, boyfriend and family.
What I fear most: nothing
I'm proudest of: My son, and my strength.
People would be surprised to know: I was born 3 months early 39 years ago and weighed 1 pound 10 ounces when I was born.
Pet peeves: Dirty dishes, laundry on the floor.
Favorite Song: Bohemian Rhapsody
Favorite Movie: Tommy Boy
Favorite Book: The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Dream vacation is a camping trip in the mountains in Colorado, Montana, or Switzerland.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a place I can help people in anyway I can to start a new life, to take the first steps to freedom, to get the resources to heal and live a successful life. It is a safe place for victims to come forward and take a breath of fresh air, and to make decisions for themselves.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I would like the community to know what sex trafficking entails, what domestic abuse looks like, the signs that comes with it, and the statistics in our own communities. I would like them to also know we work with general crime victims, and more about all of the services we provide so they know in details what we do and how we do it. I would like to educate all generations with the true definitions and signs of all abuse in every aspect so they can recognize it in their communities and send referrals our way.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I like to help people in any way I can to ensure they get all the resources and help they need. I like the supportive environment and positive surroundings of Someplace Safe offices, staff, and upper management.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Helping people, teaching people, meeting new people.
April 2019 Volunteer Spotlight: Kendall Churchill
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Joined the Board of Directors in October of 2017.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Faith always works its way through actions.
Favorite or dream place to live: Wherever my wife wants to live.
I'm happiest when: I get to utilize my skills for a greater purpose.
What I fear most: Touching dead things (I'm very squeamish)
People would be surprised to know: How huge of a nerd I am! I grew up immersed in the culture and have spent my fair share of time in comic books, video games, fantasy novels (Lord of the Rings, Harry Potter, Narnia), science fiction shows and moves (Star Wars, Star Trek) card games, and board games.
Pet peeves: I have a tough time when I feel lost and when I am running late.
Favorite Movie: The Lord of the Rings Trilogy
Favorite Book: As a pastor, the obvious answer is the Bible. Outside of that, I have greatly enjoyed the Harry Potter series.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I have not traveled outside of North America, so excited to go most places!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe serves as a haven and beacon of hope for families in tough situations. While the organization is not religiously affiliated, to me it serves as one of the many hands of doing God's work in bringing His kingdom.
March 2019 Volunteer Spotlight: Arielle Matti
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 5 months - volunteer in Wadena
Motto or Personal Mantra: "Choices that are easy in the short term are very often in direct conflict with what makes life easy in the long term".
Favorite or dream place to live: I like living in small town Minnesota! (as long as I get to travel outside of it from time to time)
I'm happiest when: I'm surrounded by those I love.
I'm proudest of: My education! I feel so blessed to be a few months shy of graduating with my RN. I cannot wait to see where this degree takes me.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Anywhere on the beach! The best vacation I have ever taken was to Panama City Beach with two friends.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Choosing to volunteer for Someplace Safe has proved to be a great decision as I see the way that it changes peoples lives and provides me with so many learning opportunities. I know that I will take what I have learned from Someplace Safe and use it in my career as a nurse.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I feel some people do not know that Someplace Safe is an option for help. The employees at Someplace Safe work extremely hard to meet the needs of the individuals that seek their services. With that, Someplace Safe is a completely nonjudgmental and confidential environment for victims of crime to find help and support.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I have learned so much about the legal systems in Minnesota as well as what it means to be an advocate for others in my time at Someplace Safe. It is a great feeling to know that I am helping others live the life that they deserve, a safe life free from violence and crime where their needs are met.
February 2019 Volunteer Spotlight: Amanda Crouse
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 3rd Year of Volunteering
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do one thing everyday that scares you – Eleanor Roosevelt
Favorite or dream place to live: I would love to live on the water some day
I'm happiest when: I’m relaxing with my family – enjoying my little girl and dog
What I fear most: the unknown
I'm proudest of: Seeing my Little Girl grow and overcome obstacles every day.
People would be surprised to know: My dream job would be an event planner and Cavalier breeder
Pet peeves: Liars & food noises
Favorite Song: Bless the Broken Road – Rascal Flatts
Favorite Movie: McLintock!
Favorite Book: Nineteen Minutes by Jodi Picoult
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Hawaii is definitely on my bucket list
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a valuable resource to our community. Unfortunately in the society we live in resources can be scarce for women seeking help, the aid and guidance given to those in trouble is a valuable asset to have in our community.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I love being able to volunteer to help a cause I think is a valuable asset to the community. It is a fun group of people to work with yet we accomplish a great task.
December 2018 Employee Spotlight: Kalyn Jacobsen-Herder
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 months
Motto or Personal Mantra: Shame has no place in my office.
Favorite or dream place to live: I've always loved living in Minnesota.
I'm happiest when: I'm cuddling with my 6 month old son.
What I fear most: Loosing those I love.
I'm proudest of: My first garden I grew this summer.
People would be surprised to know: I can play the trombone.
Pet peeves: When people stop listening to you in the middle of you telling them a story.
Favorite Song: "You Can Close Your Eyes" by James Taylor and Carole King
Favorite Movie: Right now its "Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them"
Favorite Book: Pride and Prejudice
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Iceland
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: I love being a part of an organization that has such a positive impact on the community.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: The victimizations we see are much more prevalent than many realize. However this means we have knowledge and resources for whatever people are experiencing. We assure people they are not alone, we can help.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: It is the most intense and important job I've ever had.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Being able to provide clients and amount of security or peace. 2. My knowledgeable and understanding coworkers. 3. Providing education to the community.
November 2018 Staff Spotlight: Kristy Brackett
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been recently hired as the Director of Advocacy. I've actually worked for Someplace Safe a few different times. The last time, I worked as an advocate out of Alexandria for four years.
Motto or Personal Mantra: "What would happen if...?" This question is usually followed by me doing whatever I was wondering about. And one that was particularly relevant when I started policing, though I've never been particularly religious: Psalm 82: "Give justice to the weak and fatherless; maintain the right of the afflicted and the destitute. Rescue the weak and the needy; deliver them from the hand of the wicked."
Favorite or dream place to live: I'd love a small cabin in the woods by a body of water, river or lake, doesn't matter. It would be something similar to what my grandparents had when were were growing up. The house would be just big enough to cram all the kids and grandkids in, and we'd have lots of land to run around on when everyone grew tired of each other.
I'm happiest when: I'm happiest when I'm with my family and friends. It doesn't matte what we're doing, our love for each other makes the good time what it is.
What I fear most: I have the same general anxieties about life as everyone else has: Is (blank) the right choice? Will (blank) harm me or someone I love? Etc. However, one of the best feelings in the world is right before you go to sleep. Your head hits the pillow an you tell yourself you did a great job that day. I figure the more nights you have like that, the better for you your life is. So, mt biggest fear related to that: That I'll wake up one day when I'm old and have to objectively admit to myself that life was a waste.
I'm proudest of: How far I've come from where I was.
People would be surprised to know: People would be surprised to know that I am a closet introvert. No one ever believes that. I'm also a police officer and a kickboxing instructor. I want to write a horror novel!
Pet peeves: Bad drivers and complainers.
Favorite Song: I can't think of any song that I'd listen to over and over. My favorite song seems to be whatever fits my activity the best at the time.
Favorite Movie: I love horror movies.
Favorite Book: I have no favorites here either, but read a ton of horror and fantasy novels.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I guess I'm not picky here either. I'd love to travel all over the world. Anywhere I'd go, I'd take a couple weeks. The first week would be hiking everywhere, seeing the countryside, exploring the culture, eating the food. I'd spend the next week relaxing by the water and drinking cocktails.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means the potential for something better for those we have the opportunity to help.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I'd like people to know that the whole is much bigger than the sum of parts. Everyone here works incredibly hard to met the needs of clients and their communities and will bend over backwards to get the job done. While safety is our main concern, the lessons we teach go far beyond that. We teach authenticity, confidence, self-reliance, and most importantly, that what you have right now is not where you are stuck. There can be a brighter future.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I've always loved the care and passion that staff members have for each other and clients. These are some of the warmest people you'd ever meet and they make Someplace Safe a great place to work.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: I've only begun this position, so I can only share what I'm hoping to achieve. I'm hoping to become an ally to the advocates, to really make them shine, and help them see the excellent work they do every day. I want them to feel successful personally and professionally and for them to see that leadership works as hard for them as they work for their clients. Finally, on a personal note, self-growth: to learn to check my patience and become a much better organizer and leader.
October 2018 Staff Spotlight: Kim Anderson Moen
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 11 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: "You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have."
Favorite or dream place to live: My dream place to live would be in a cabin in the mountains.
I'm happiest when: I'm spending time with my grandkids or riding my Harley clearing my head.
What I fear most: I can't think of anything I fear.
I'm proudest of: Being successful on my own.
People would be surprised to know: My music choice is hard rock (think Korn, Stone Sour, 5 Finger Death Punch)
Pet peeves: People who put money and phones in their bras!
Favorite Movie: Despicable Me - darn minions make me laugh every time!
Favorite Book: I always have a book open on my Kindle, but rarely look at the titles of the books I read...
Favorite or Dream Vacation: My dream vacation is a motorcycle trip to Colorado and places in between.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A safe, caring environment for someone to go to receive options and information. The need for supportive victim services is, unfortunately, constant.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe provides services to ALL victims of crime - and that means men as well. It still surprises me when people say they thought we only help women. Our work is not done in educating the community!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I love what I do at Someplace Safe. The work is rewarding, can be demanding, and there isn't a day that goes by that I don't learn something new. Also, I have great co-workers who I can bounce ideas and challenges off of, and who are supportive of me both professionally and personally.
September 2018 Staff Spotlight: Diane Hennen
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Nearly 5 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: The Golden Rule and "Don't Worry, Be Happy"
Favorite or dream place to live: Near or on a lake with a maid, and my family of course.
I'm happiest when: I am helping others or babysitting grandkids.
I'm proudest of: My family - my husband is an ordained Deacon, 3 daughters and son-in laws, and 9 grandkids.
Pet peeves: People who make messes then make others clean them up.
Favorite Song: "Let There Be Peace on Earth"
Favorite Book: "The Thornbirds" but also many other good books.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A place where people can come that is safe, confidential, caring, and helpful.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Meeting with customers, establishing relationships with repeat customers, fellow employees, seeing the unique items we get in as donations.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. People - customers and employees. 2. Variety - donations and job responsibilities. 3. Part-time - flexible yet scheduled.
August 2018 Staff Spotlight: Kayla Peterson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 6 months
Motto or Personal Mantra: When life hands you lemons, make lemonade.
Favorite or dream place to live: I would love to live next to the ocean one day.
I'm happiest when: I'm with family and friends.
What I fear most: Rodents
I'm proudest of: Being an aunt.
People would be surprised to know: That I worked in a factory where I operated a saw and learned how to weld.
Pet peeves: Leaving the shower curtain open!
Favorite Song: Mariah Carey - Fantasy
Favorite Movie: Now & Then
Favorite Book: A Boy Called "It"
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Go to Jamaica
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Helping victims of crime connect with resources and helping them with whatever they may need help with.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Being able to help people.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Getting to be a part of the community I grew up in.
July 2018 Volunteer Spotlight: Meg Yarnell
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 years + as a volunteer
Motto or Personal Mantra: Just get to the gym - you KNOW you will feel better after.
Favorite or dream place to live: Tahiti
I'm happiest when: I am sewing or with my grandchildren.
What I fear most: Fire
I'm proudest of: My children
People would be surprised to know: I was paralyzed from the waist down.
Pet peeves: Whiners
Favorite Song: Any Al Green
Favorite Movie: Gone With the Wind/True Lies
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Egypt - Holy Land
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: We help so many, even a volunteer like me gets to give back to the community.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We reach out to so many people, even around the world.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Working with fun people.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: The people I work with, socializing with the public, helping the community.
June 2018 Staff Spotlight: Hope Torma
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Been employed since January 30, 2018 as a Crime Victim Advocate.
Motto or Personal Mantra: "You are Enough"
Favorite or dream place to live: I don't know if I would live there, but my dream has been to stay on a houseboat in Maine.
I'm happiest when: I'm cooking and hanging out with my family - enjoying watching my children grow and learn new things.
What I fear most: In a literal sense: heights. In another sense: loosing my kids.
I'm proudest of: Being a mother and a hard worker.
People would be surprised to know: That my name is not intentionally as inspirational as people like to think - was named after a soap opera.
Pet peeves: The sound of cracking bones, no organization or planning.
Favorite Song: "Fancy"
Favorite Movie: The Life of David Gale
Favorite Book: Anything about Amish living
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Finland and Nashville, TN
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It means opportunity and Hope for the future
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Crime affects more than just the "target" individual - secondary victims are just as impacted by the fear for safety and the unknown - this includes children.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I like the opportunity to be a support for those individuals/families who experience unfortunate hardships due to crime. Also, the staff and supervisors are all very understanding and caring (they're in the right field, too).
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Working with people. 2. Collaboration. 3. The ability to give someone an ear when they truly just want someone to listen.
May 2018 Staff Spotlight: Stephanie Kelly
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Almost 8 years at the Someplace Safe Parenting Time Center in Morris.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Always give more than you receive.
Favorite or dream place to live: I went to Hawaii and absolutely loved it but I am originally from Alexandria, MN and that is home to me.
I'm happiest when: I'm with my kids, whether it be watching a movie eating popcorn, playing games, singing in the car with the volume turned up or just hanging out.
What I fear most: Running out of time to do all the things that life has to offer.
I'm proudest of: How wonderful my kids have turned out.
People would be surprised to know: I don't know that they would be surprised about anything. I'm pretty much an open book. Sometimes I even over share. Lol
Pet peeves: People that smack their food.
Favorite Song: I have many favorite songs from "Every Breath You Take" by the Police to "Want to Want me" by Jason Derulo. Too many to list all.
Favorite Movie: Never been kissed.
Favorite Book: I love Jodi Picoult and any true crime books.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I would love to go to Paris.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: I feel proud to know that I have a part in putting a smile on the faces of children and the parents. It is so important for the children and the parents to maintain an ongoing relationship and I'm honored to be a part of that.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This can be a very rewarding job. I would also like the community to know that Parenting Time Center makes it possible for children to spend time with their parent or parents to spend time with their children until they are hopefully reunited with each other. It is a safe place for everyone.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: The incredible people I work for and with!
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Knowing we can provide a safe place for families to get together. 2. Helping families rebuild their relationships. 3. The working relationships I have with amazing people.
April 2018 Staff Spotlight: Brianna Stoltenburg
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 10 Years as a Monitor and Scheduler at Parenting Time Center
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do something for someone everyday where they couldn't possibly pay you back. Also, to think positively. Never stop learning, educate yourself.
Favorite or dream place to live: Anywhere on a secluded beach or island.
I'm happiest when: I'm with my family.
What I fear most: Not accomplishing the goals I've set in place for myself.
I'm proudest of: My four daughters, Alayna (10), Avaya (7), Ayla (5), and Ariya (2).
People would be surprised to know: I went to school for Estiology because I wanted to originally be a makeup artist.
Pet peeves: Artificial flowers planted in the ground or in pots.
Favorite Song: Anything by Pentatonix
Favorite Movie: Amelie
Favorite Book: Ghosts from the Nursery by Robin Karr-Morse
Favorite or Dream Vacation: My favorite vacation I had is when I went to Florida when I was 18. My dream vcation would be to go to the Maldives. I'd also love to take my children to Walt Disney World one day.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It means connecting individuals with those who NEED help to someone that CAN help them. Whether the need is Advocacy, Safe Harbor, or Parenting Time. We are all here and CAN help and are WILLING to help.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I'd like the community to know that we really hope parents success by being able to parent outside of Parenting Time Center one day. We really do care about the families we serve and hope that even in the difficult circumstance of being supervised, they can put that aside and spend time together in a safe place for both parent and child.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I like the opportunity to help individuals.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. My co-workers 2. The clients and their children 3. The environment - fortunate that I get to work in a house.
March 2018 Staff Spotlight: Tanja Richter
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 4 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: Why not? (I learned this one from when I was on vacation and it has stuck with me)
Favorite or dream place to live: Mexico or the Mountains
I'm happiest when: I have my grandkids around me! Family is very important to me.
What I fear most: To stop living life to the fullest because my fear stops me.
I'm proudest of: My girls are the strong independent women they have all become. Four of them are mothers and they are the best moms ever! My other daughter is the best auntie! They are my inspiration as they stand strong and with each other. They are also passing on some magnificent life skills to my grandbabies.
People would be surprised to know: I would love to be a coroner or investigator.
Pet peeves: Hearing people chew! This is actually worse than nails down a chalkboard!
Favorite Song: November Rain by GNR is my ultimate favorite. Music is very important to me and I listen to so many genres depending on my mood and what speaks to my soul.
Favorite Movie: Goonies, Alice in Wonderland, Charlie & the Chocolate Factory, Willie Wonka & the Chocolate Factory, Nanny McPhee and Return of Nanny McPhee, any John Wayne, Patrick Swayze, Will Smith, Bruce WIllis movie, and many more! The problem is I do not get much time to sit and watch movies.
Favorite Book: I do not have a favorite book but I do enjoy many non-fictions. I truly enjoy mystery and thriller books. But then I can scare myself!
Favorite or Dream Vacation: We go to Mexico every 2-3 years.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: We never judge another for the choices they make. We strive to provide the options to empower all of the people we serve. All of the support we give and the tools that we offer hopefully assists in allowing an individual/family to live a violent free lifestyle.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: The work we do is not easy but it is necessary as crime and violence can happen to anyone. We strive to advocate for the clients we serve from the first moment we meet them until they decide they no longer need our services. It is also very important for the community to assist in recognizing the different crimes and violence and then taking the step to help a fellow human.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: There are so many different things I like best. My coworkers are a one-of-a-kind group. We all have our own stories of what brought us to this point but we are also very connected and supportive of one another. There is never a time when there is non available to talk with whether it is from putting heads together to just talking about life in general.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: There are many highlights to my job but the first is the support from my coworkers and from leadership. The second highlight would have to come from being able to provide options to others in their time of need. Knowing that people care and that we are all here to support and empower them. The third highlight is there is never a dull moment. As a regional advocate I am not in the same office every day. I get to work more with my co-workers and learn more.
February 2018 Staff Spotlight: Jessie Brough
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Crime Victim Advocate for almost a year in March, 2018.
Motto or Personal Mantra: "Every little thing is gonna be alright" from Bob Marley's song "Three Little Birds". I used to sing this song to my kids when they were little and when they knew I was having a bad day they would sing it to me to cheer me up.
Favorite or dream place to live: Anywhere in the Caribbean, the lifestyle is so laid back.
I'm happiest when: I am travelling. I'd like to be able to do it more often.
What I fear most: Mice, deathly afraid of mice.
I'm proudest of: Myself, I have overcome many obstacles in my adult life that have made me a stronger person.
People would be surprised to know: I have always wanted to be an attorney. I question my sanity daily when I consider going to law school.
Pet peeves: When people don't hold themselves accountable for anything.
Favorite Song: No favorite, I like almost all genres of music.
Favorite Movie: Any comedy or scary movie.
Favorite Book: To Kill a Mocking Bird.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Anywhere really, but I would love to visit Russia or South Africa.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Empowerment.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We are always busy! Many people don't realize how much crime is actually happening within our community, unless they are directly affected by it. Domestic violence, sexual violence, trafficking, etc. is here and we are assisting many of the victims involved. Our services make a big difference in the community, the justice system, and the victim's life in general.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: The people, from my coworkers to my clients. My coworkers are some of the strongest, smartest people I know. Each client, brings a different story, that really sticks with me and makes me work harder.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. The relationships with other system's professionals, everyone works together to assist the people within the community. It really makes a difference in people's lives. 2. My coworkers are hard workers, at times our jobs are challenging and they may feel defeated, but each day they come back. That says alot. 3. Seeing someone's life change because of our services, when all hope is lost, we are able to bring some of that hope back.
January 2018 Staff Spotlight: Leslie Rohde
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 4 months
Motto or Personal Mantra: Just keep swimming!
Favorite or dream place to live: Wartburg, Germany
I'm happiest when: I'm home snuggling with my husband and pets.
What I fear most: Something touching my foot in the water.
I'm proudest of: My husband's achievements.
People would be surprised to know: I'm a trekkie.
Pet peeves: Slow drivers and loud chewers.
Favorite Song: How Far I'll Go from Moana
Favorite Movie: We Bought a Zoo
Favorite Book: Too many to choose!
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Sitting on a beach at Curacao.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Hope for those going through the roughest time in their lives.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: It can be hard work but it is so fulfilling!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Doing something meaningful.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Seeing changes in victims 2. Working with kids 3. Making a difference through education and prevention.
December 2017 Staff Spotlight: Ashley Zach
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been with Someplace Safe for 7 years, with the past 2.5 years as the Director of Development and Communications.
Favorite or dream place to live: I am fortunate enough to have traveled to many different places. However, I do still enjoy living in small town North Dakota, and enjoy the changes of each season. I could probably do without all the summer mosquitoes here though.
I'm happiest when: I am happiest when spending time with my family and friends, watching my sons at sports or activities (especially hockey), spending time at the lake, shopping, and travelling. I like to stay busy.
What I fear most: Running out of diet coke. Or having to cook at home more than once per week.
I'm proudest of: My 2 sons – raising boys has allowed me to experience things I would have otherwise never imagined myself doing.
People would be surprised to know: I am a history buff. I almost majored in history in college but took a different path instead. My history knowledge now comes in handy during trivia nights with my friends.
Pet peeves: There are too many to list… but slow drivers would be at the top.
Favorite Song: Right now, anything by Chris Stapleton.
Favorite Movie: “National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation”, “Just Friends”, “Bad Moms” to name a few.
Favorite Book: I have been trying to read the same book for nearly 2 years, so I must not be very interested in it.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I have been to Las Vegas 13 times, so I would say that destination is one of my favorites.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a place where individuals, families, and community members may come to rebuild their lives. Our agency helps to give the tools and support needed to put victims of crime and abuse on the path to becoming strong, empowered survivors.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: The amount of support Someplace Safe receives from our local communities is unfathomable...everything from collections of toiletries and personal care items, to handmade quilts, holiday gifts for families, diapers and children's items, monetary donations, volunteerism, event and fundraiser support, and more. The list goes on and on. We could not do the important work we do in our communities without our supporters, allies, and friends. YOU are the reason Someplace Safe has been able to help victims and survivors of crime and abuse find safety for nearly 40 years, and will continue to do so for generations to come.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Knowing that each one of us at Someplace Safe, no matter which program we work in or position we hold, plays an integral part in making a positive difference in the lives of others.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Working in an organization who is strives to make a difference and create safer communities for us all. 2. Connecting donors and supporters with a cause they hold dear to their hearts. 3. Hearing success stories from survivors who have utilized our services and are now living safe, healthy lives.
November 2017 Staff Spotlight: Rachel Peterson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been with Someplace Safe since October 2015. Beginning my third year. I started as a Regional Crime Victim Advocate, traveling, and working in the 9 counties and 10 advocacy offices that Someplace Safe has for close to 1.5 years. I then worked in one of our multi-person offices in Douglas County, and currently am the Crime Victim Advocate in Stevens County and at the University of Minnesota, Morris.
Motto or Personal Mantra: What is right is not always popular and what is popular is not always right.
Favorite or dream place to live: Anything by the water, or I would love to live over in Europe again!
I'm happiest when: I am by or on the water and spending time with my family
What I fear most: Losing family that is very special to me
I'm proudest of: Paying off my last college loan before the 10 years was up! My family!
People would be surprised to know: : I am related to a classic rock singer!
Pet peeves: When paper, last copy, or something isn't replaced and you go to get one and it is gone. If you take it replace it!
Favorite Song: Hanging by a Moment by Lifehouse. Actually anything by Lifehouse.
Favorite Movie: A Knight's Tale with Heath Ledger
Favorite Book: "Inside the Kingdom: My Life in Saudi Arabia" by Carmen Bin Laden
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Favorite Vacation was going to Costa Rica with my husband. (His first international trip, our first trip together internationally) My semester abroad to Segovia, Spain and fall break trip to Italy while overseas. Dream Vacation would be to Bora Bora!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Providing navigation, options, safety, education, awareness to not only victims of crime, Domestic Violence, Sexual Violence, but to the community as being a much-needed resource that I can't imagine what people would do if we were not here! It means having people breathe (exhale) for the first time in years, smile, and laugh.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I would like the broader community to know one that Domestic Violence, Sexual Assaults, Sex/Human/Labor trafficking, Elder abuse, Child Abuse they exist and happen each day in the area that Someplace Safe serves. These things happen to people young and old, rich, and poor, people with jobs and without, people who are Doctors, Lawyers, and people who work in retail or at fast food places. It affects everyone in a community. I would also want them to know that we may not experience the trauma that law enforcement or fire departments do first hand, but the stories we hear from our victims or when we take a call on the crisis line and the line cuts out it affects us. We care about what we do and the people we help.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Helping the victims we serve with their various situations is a rewarding experience! I work with some amazing people who have such a passion for what they do, and it is great to be surrounded by that energy of wanting to change the world for the better!
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Getting to work in all the different offices to see how things are done and working with the advocates in each. 2. Helping people with their situations and having a positive outcome for them is very rewarding! 3. Each of the advocates that I work with have such unique strengths, talents, and passion for the work we do and I love being around that! We all work together to change the world and make it better!
October 2017 Staff Spotlight: Shawn Thurston
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 1/2 years at the Otter Tail County Perham Advocacy Office
Motto or Personal Mantra: You do not have to be perfect to be Amazing!!!!
Favorite or dream place to live: Honestly, I love the community that I live and serve in. My children have blossomed sine moving to the lakes country.
I'm happiest when: I am happiest when I am surrounded by family.
What I fear most: Severe summer storms at night.
I'm proudest of: I am proudest of my 3 sons and my Grandson. They are my guys and I am so proud of the strong individuals that they are growing to be.
People would be surprised to know: I love to sing. I used to sing all the time, sporting events, weddings....Competitions...anywhere that I could....I was offered a recording contract when I was 19. Now I just sing for myself.
Pet peeves: I strongly dislike when anyone eats with their mouth open.
Favorite Song: I am a lover of all music so it is tough to pick just one song.... A few of them are I'll Be, What Matters and I Could Not Ask for More ... all by Edwin McCain.
Favorite Movie: "The Guys"
Favorite Book: I love to read... I again cannot choose just one book so I will say...my favorite book is one that I can totally get list in the experience. If I feel disappointed when it is over because I didn't want it to end, then it is a favorite.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I would like to go on a cruise with my sons and grandson.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: My work at Someplace Safe means a lot to me. It has given me the opportunity to grow as a person, to help others to empower themselves in their lives and has given me the opportunity to bring education an awareness to the communities that I serve.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This work is not about "saving" people, it is about helping others to empower themselves. To help them stay safe, to be more aware of what is going on around them. It is about helping to bring education and awareness to our communities and to our youth. To empower others to make good healthy decisions in their lives. It is about providing opportunities and helping to create safer communities. I am proud to be a part of Someplace Safe and its mission.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I would have to say I love being given the opportunity to work with community and Diverse populations.... I love helping others to empower themselves.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: I would say that the top three highlights of my job would be opportunity to engage in the communities that I serve. The opportunity to bring education and awareness ... I love public speaking and the staff at Someplace Safe is AMAZING... and full of knowledge.
September 2017 Volunteer Spotlight (1 of 2): LeeAnn Sticha
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 years - Someplace Safe Alexandria Thrift Store - clothing area and greeting cards area
Motto or Personal Mantra: FROG - Fully Rely on God
Favorite or dream place to live: My current home on Lake Darling
I'm happiest when: I'm with my family.
I'm proudest of: My husband, daughter and son
People would be surprised to know: I worked for 34 years as a Speech-Language Pathologist
Favorite Song: too many to list
Favorite Movie: The Sound of Music
Favorite Book: The Bible
Favorite or Dream Vacation: The trip to Europe with my husband and friends last summer.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A community of support for victims of crime.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: You can help Someplace Safe in many ways by: volunteering, donating money, donating items for the thrift store, and shopping at the thrift store.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Promoting the mission of Someplace Safe, helping the community, and helping customers
September 2017 Volunteer Spotlight #2 (2 of 2): Tammy Hintermeister
Length of time with Someplace Safe: One year at the Someplace Safe Alexandria Thrift Store - clothing room
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do unto others as you would have done to you.
Favorite or dream place to live: Big Island Hawaii
I'm happiest when: I'm spending time with my family.
What I fear most: Fire
I'm proudest of: My family
People would be surprised to know: I love to Roller Blade
Pet peeves: People who text while driving swerving all over the road.
Favorite Song: "Hallelujah"
Favorite Movie: The Shack
Favorite Book: "The Shack"
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Hawaii
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is very important to me. I love helping others.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I would like Alexandria to learn how much Someplace Safe does for the community and surrounding areas.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Doing something that helps other in need.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Helping others 2. Working with clothing 3. Working with the Someplace Safe family
August 2017 Spotlight: Charolotte Anne
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: "Do small things with great love"
Favorite or dream place to live: Spain
I'm happiest when: When I am spending time with family and friends.
What I fear most: Getting stuck in an elevator.
I'm proudest of: I was in a documentary called "Finding Jenn's Voice" that brings awareness to potentially homicidal relationships.
People would be surprised to know: I played the viola for 10 years.
Pet peeves: Smudges/fingerprints on my computer.
Favorite Song: Yellow Rose of Texas.
Favorite Movie: Wizard of Oz
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Spain
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: We help create a safe place for everyone.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Advocates offer support to victim/survivors of crime. We offer them information and help them find resources for their specific needs. At times this can be very heartwrenching. It is important that advocates be understanding, non-judgmental and a confidential outlet/safe place for victims/survivors to talk.
July 2017 Staff Spotlight: Sarah Moulton
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I was a volunteer for two years, and now I am employed part-time at the Someplace Safe Thrift Store in Morris.
Motto or Personal Mantra: All I can do is my absolute best each day. If I have done that, then it was a successful day!
Favorite or dream place to live: Right here in Minnesota, preferably where it is woodsy.
I'm happiest when: I am walking our dog on the path at Pomme de Terre park with my husband, especially at sunset.
What I fear most: That humanity will choose hate, war and greed over love, peace, and equality.
I'm proudest of: My efforts to overcome my own insecurities and denounce society's expectations. Also, being a high school teacher.
People would be surprised to know: I am obsessed with cats.
Pet peeves: Judgmental people.
Favorite Song: "Stand By Me" by Ben E. King
Favorite Movie: "My Neighbor Totoro" from director Hayao Miyazaki
Favorite Book: "A Wrinkle in Time" by Madeleine L'Engle
Favorite or Dream Vacation: A tour of South America, especially Machu Picchu.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: The organization means people in my community have access to help when they need it most. The Thrift Store means access to quality second hand items for people of all income levels, and less "stuff" in dumps--overall, Someplace Safe means a positive impact on humans and the environment. And I'm all about that.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Maintaining a successful non-profit is not easy, and it takes a lot of people to make it work well for those in need. Do whatever you can to support organizations like Someplace Safe, that are working hard everyday to make our communities and our world a better place.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I enjoy coming to work and know that the time I am spending there is directly supporting victims in my community. I am proud to be working for an organization that serves people in need. And the people I work with are great!
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Getting to know people in my community 2. Getting to spread the word about how awesome Someplace Safe is 3. Finding awesome, unique items at the Thrift Store!
June 2017 Staff Spotlight: Sierra Kanten
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 2 years! Crime Victim Advocate for Big Stone County
Motto or Personal Mantra: Be Kind to one another
Favorite or dream place to live: Big Sky, Montana
I'm happiest when: At home with my family and friends
What I fear most: tornadoes
People would be surprised to know: I have competitively show horses for 18 years
Pet peeves: People chomping on their gum
Favorite Song: James Arthur - Say You Won't Let Go
Favorite Movie: Titanic
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means such a great deal to me, not only is it my place of work but something that I am very passionate about. It means helping people in time of struggle and praising people in success. It means giving someone a new outlook on life and making a huge impact on them as a person. It's a worthwhile cause and I am proud to be a part of it.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I enjoy being able to help people every day, and the flexibility that this job allows.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Helping people, flexible schedule, great co-workers
May 2017 Spotlight: Staisha Bethel
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 9 Months at Fergus Falls Parenting Time Center as Emilyn's Assistant
Motto or Personal Mantra: You never realize how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have.
Favorite or dream place to live: My favorite place is Duluth Minnesota. It is so incredibly beautiful there.
I'm happiest when: I am with my kids and Fiance spending time together as a family.
What I fear most: Losing it all.
I'm proudest of: My children and who they are growing to be.
Favorite Song: Fight Song
Favorite Movie: The New Beauty and the Beast
Favorite or Dream Vacation: A trip/honeymoon in Hawaii
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means to me as safe fresh start. It will forever have a special place in my heart.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: It helps people in the worst times of their lives. It gives them hope and strength. It is so much more than people are aware. The amount of tings that all of Someplace Safe does is truly amazing. They are such a tremendous help to this community we are so lucky to have this kind of organization.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: The staff is amazing; they make it enjoyable to come to work everyday. Helping with Fundraisers. It really is rewarding to be a part of it. Getting to be a part of this great organization that has a very close special place in my heart.
April 2017 Volunteer Spotlight: Mary Nortman
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Since July 2016
Motto or Personal Mantra: "I can do anything for 30 miutes" (or 60 or a day!)
Favorite or dream place to live: Wherever my husband is!
I'm happiest when: Im with my daughter and grandson, shopping, or volunteering.
What I fear most: Loud angry people who in invade my personal space.
I'm proudest of: My daughter who is working on her Ph.D. in clinical psychology and my grandson who participates in Model U.N., Quizbowl, and soccer.
People would be surprised to know: That I have a blue streak in my hair and that I have read on the "Clothing Optional" deck of a cruise ship to avoid some people when I was on too long of a cruise. I knew they wouldn't follow.
Favorite Song: Fur Eloise
Favorite Book: The Power of One
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Alaska with my husband, coming true this summer!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a place where I can help abused children, help women pick up the pieces, and work with the greatest colleagues. It means looking forward to coming in to volunteer Monday - Friday, and missing it on Saturday and Sunday.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Direct Advocacy with survivors of abuse (and those who don't think they are), Womens Empowerment Group with Crime Victim Advocate Susan K., Assisting with the Tea Fundraiser
March 2017 Staff Spotlight: Heidi Sampson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 1 year as Executive Assistant
Motto or Personal Mantra: Dream big.
Favorite or dream place to live: On a Minnesota lake.
I'm happiest when: I'm spending time with my family.
I'm proudest of: my son
People would be surprised to know: I was born in Colorado.
Pet peeves: When people continually do things incorrectly even after they've been told/shown the correct way.
Favorite Song: Anything by Florida Georgia Line
Favorite Movie: Varsity Blues
Favorite Book: Anything by Elin Hilderbrand
Favorite or Dream Vacation: My favorite vacation was Nashville with my husband and friends last year.
February 2017 Volunteer Spotlight: Arlene Cossette
Length of time with Someplace Safe: About 4 years
Motto or Personal Mantra: Don't give up. When or if someone tells you that you can't do something, just do it. I took a chance and went back to school and got a 4.0 in my first semester.
Favorite or dream place to live: My dream place is Denver, Colorado. I like to explore the mountains. I also like Washington D.C., Seattle, or Montana.
I'm happiest when: I am visiting with friends and family. I also like to travel to travel to Washington D.C., Denver, Colorado; Whitefish, Montana.
What I fear most: Getting too old to drive where I want to go, and when I can't leave when I want to.
I'm proudest of: Attending NDSCS when I was an older than average student. Myself and others like me are used as examples at Job Service when they encourage people my age to return to school.
People would be surprised to know: My favorite class is history.
Pet peeves: When someone chews food with their mouth open and talks.
Favorite Song: Amazing Grace
Favorite Movie: Tammy
Favorite Book: The series written by Lorraine Snelling which is about the history of our area. It is about the settlers coming here and not being able to speak English.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Going to England or France
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe has meaning to me. It sometimes doesn't take much to help someone. Sometimes a difference is made in someone's life even with a small amount of help or advice.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Getting to know the staff and other volunteers, seeing the needs of clients being met, helping with the Purple Power fundraiser. It is hard work, but the most fun.
January 2017 Staff Spotlight: Donna Ortendahl
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Have worked here since April 25th, 2016. I am a Crime Victim Advocate
Motto or Personal Mantra: I will believe you until you give me a reason not to.
Favorite or dream place to live: Hawaii
I'm happiest when: I am spending time with my family. I love nature & enjoy traveling to different places.
What I fear most: Losing the people I love.
I'm proudest of: My children
People would be surprised to know: I am the youngest of 9 kids in my family.
Pet peeves: I hate to be lied to!!!!
Favorite Song: Anything sung by the group Def Leppard
Favorite Movie: Titanic
Favorite Book: Romance Novels
Favorite or Dream Vacation: When we went to Maui, Hawaii & stayed at a 5 STAR hotel on the beach!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is a place that offers people in a crisis or transitional time, a sanctuary to get a helping hand to bridge the gap until they can get where they need to be.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: What we do here is so very important & we will not stop fighting to put an end to violence in our communities. We are committed to those we serve & will help them get the resources they are in need of. We will connect them to people that will help be of service to them & make them feel safe again.
December 2016 Volunteer Spotlight: Alan Lindahl
Length of time with Someplace Safe: At the Someplace Safe Parenting Time Center, and at their Waffle Fundraiser.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do to others as you would have them do to you.
Favorite or dream place to live: Anywhere with my family.
I'm happiest when: I am with my family.
What I fear most: Being buried alive.
I'm proudest of: Being able to move forward with my life.
People would be surprised to know: Even though I look tough, I am the sweetest person. I have a soft heart.
Pet peeves: When people call into work and bad drivers.
Favorite Song: Megadeth - Sweating Bullets
Favorite Movie: Idiocracy
Favorite Book: The Wheel of Time by Robert JOrdan
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Rome
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: What Someplace Safe means to me, is that is a safe place for children and families. It is help and support when it is needed most.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That is does so much more for people then what most know.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: Volunteering alongside my friends and family, seeing the appreciation of the volunteering, and meeting new people.
November 2016 Volunteer Spotlight: Ashley Wiertzema
Length of time with Someplace Safe: At the Someplace Safe Parenting Time Center, and at their waffle fundraiser.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Do to others as you would have them do to you
Favorite or dream place to live: anywhere with my family
I'm happiest when: I am with my family
What I fear most: being buried alive
I'm proudest of: being able to Move forward with my life
People would be surprised to know: even though I look tough. I am the sweetest of person. I have a soft heart.
Pet peeves: When people call into work, bad drivers
Favorite Song: Megadeth - Sweating Bullets
Favorite Movie: Idiocracy
Favorite Book: The Wheel of Time by Robert Jordan
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Rome
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: What Someplace Safe means to me, is that it is a safe place for children and families. It is help and support when it is needed the most.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That it does so much more for people then what most know.
October 2016 Volunteer Spotlight: Chelsea Nelson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: A year and some change
Motto or Personal Mantra: If your dreams don’t scare you, they aren’t big enough
Favorite or dream place to live: I can’t wait to build a home with my future family, surrounded by our children and animals.
I'm happiest when: I get to let go of the world’s problems: when I’m dancing, riding my horses, running around with my dog, or cruising across a lake.
What I fear most: That society won’t change, that the idea of hurting someone else can still be justified, that children remain in dangerous homes because systems fail them over and over again. I fear that we have become so desensitized to violence, that even a victim’s death won’t shake our world to change.
I'm proudest of: Being able to hold my head high, stand my ground, and forgive mistakes.
People would be surprised to know: I’ve lived on two military bases: Washington DC and Washington State. I was accepted into Princeton and had the opportunity to work for media in the capitol but duty stations changed to the other side of the country. So I worked very hard at the 3rd largest Starbucks in the world, and came in 3nd place for Operation Rising Star, a National Singing Competition for Military dependents.
Pet peeves: People who say, “I don’t know.” Between an entire world full of people and Google, the answers are out there…seek and ye shall find.
Favorite Song: Somethin’s Got A Hold on Me – Etta James, Blessed Redeemer, Casting Crowns
Favorite Movie: Son in Law, Goonies, National Lampoon’s Christmas Vacation
Favorite Book: The Art of War, Poetry by Emily Dickenson
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Some Tropical Bungalow, water, sun, sand and endless umbrella drinks, and my dog. Or I’d love to work at a horse ranch for a couple weeks, simplify life down and get a great work out. The dog would come too. Basically anywhere with a drink, and my dog.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Safety, Options, Hope, believing and not judging. IT’s often time the first place that victims hear that what is happening to them is not their fault. Together we identify abuse, and the truth that abuse is not ok. I firmly believe that each person has gifts and value, they have the power in them to make the world a better place or help destroy it. The choice is theirs, the obstacles we face in life are opportunities to grow. Our mission isn’t to save others, we can’t do that, but we can help them face these struggles so that they aren’t alone and show them paths to carry on.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: These “Issues” are all of our issues, domestic violence occurs way too often and we need to teach values of respect to everyone. Enough is enough. We can make a difference if we stand together for zero tolerance. We need to work harder to illuminate rape culture. We need to set a higher bar for valuing each other as human beings for the sake of our future children.
September 2016 Staff Spotlight: Sara Wagner
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 5 months
Motto or Personal Mantra: I definitely have a couple mottos that I choose to live by, but one of them is never take things for granted. Often times, we forget how precious life is, and in the blink of an eye everything can change. Which is why I never miss an opportunity to tell my family and friends that I love them and how much they all mean to me.
Favorite or dream place to live: My dream place to live would be in a cabin, on the lake, in the middle of nowhere.
I'm happiest when: I am spending time with my husband and family.
What I fear most: Time, and not having enough of it to accomplish the things that I want in life.
I'm proudest of: I am proudest of the ways I challenge myself. Every year, on my birthday, I set a goal to learn 1 new task for the upcoming year. Last year I taught myself how to crochet. I am left handed, and so this wasn’t an easy task for me, as most books and tutorials are made for right handed people. I wanted to be able to crochet each of my parents an afghan for Christmas last year, and I did! Now I can’t get enough crochet time. This year, I hope to learn ASL (American Sign Language)
People would be surprised to know: I play piano, sing, and write music.
Pet peeves: I HATE the sound of people chewing loudly. If you want to eat, fine… But chomp on your food, and I can’t sit in the same room.
Favorite Song: I love music so much that there is literally no way for me to pick a favorite song.
Favorite Movie: I don’t really have a favorite, but one movie I am really looking forward to seeing is “A Dog’s Purpose,” which comes out in January!
Favorite Book: My two favorites, because they are both very different…”My Sister’s Keeper” by Jodi Picoult and “You Can, You Will” by Joel Osteen
Favorite or Dream Vacation: My dream vacation would be to go on a 2 week vacation touring Ibiza.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: What Someplace Safe means to me is that I finally have a voice to bring awareness about violence and abuse to the communities we live in. I am finally able to give encouragement and kind words to those who need it the most, and I can finally help people of all ages persevere to become survivors.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I would like the broader community to know how very important this work is. I am sad to say that before I began working for Someplace Safe, I didn’t even know that there were programs like this out there. I didn’t realize that this work could help provide the resources to help those who need it, that this work can help ALL victims of ALL crimes—no matter how big or how small. If you ask me, that’s kind of a big deal.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Being a support system for those who may not have it. It warms my heart when I can see the good I have been able to bring into someone’s life.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Being able to lift people up when they are down 2. Being a listening ear for those who need one. 3. Being a voice that can hopefully help put an end to violence.
August 2016 Staff Spotlight: Anna McArdle
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 5 years - Manager at the Someplace Safe Alexandria Thrift Store
Motto or Personal Mantra: One box or bag a time.
Favorite or dream place to live: I love Duluth!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Knowing that everything goes to helping out such a great cause. The items that are donated to the store are either given to a crime victim that needs them or sold at the store. The profit that is generated from these items goes straight into helping fund our programs.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Working with our staff and volunteers. We also work with a few partner programs to help train people to get a job outside of the program. Its always such fun to watch them graduate and move on. 2. You never know what is going to come in the store next. 3. The look of happiness on our customers faces when customers find the items they are looking for.
July 2016 Staff Spotlight: Dee Daly
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been a Sales Associate at Someplace Safe Thrift Store in Morris for just about 3 years.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Find something positive in every situation and you will be a more positive person (and a happier one)!
Favorite or dream place to live: A cabin on the lake.
I'm happiest when: I am with my family, my husband, my kids and my grandkids mean the world to me!!
What I fear most: Out living one of my kids or grandkids
I'm proudest of: All of the hard work that my husband and I do for each other and our family.
People would be surprised to know: How many things come in and go out of the store each day, its amazing!
Pet peeves: Listening to people chew, crunch, smack, slurp, etc.
Favorite Song: Mama’s Song
Favorite Movie: Grumpy and Grumpier Old Men
Favorite Book: Heaven is for Real
Favorite or Dream Vacation: My husband and I went to Playa Del Carmen, Mexico and it was beautiful. So relaxing and so much fun we can’t wait to go back!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Caring! We touch such a wide area of people that are in need of help in their life at some point or other, being domestic abuse, a fire, or a crime we are there to help!
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe helps all victims of all crimes, not just women and not just physical abuse! And, the thrift store is open to everyone, it is not just open to people with a voucher.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: I love the staff that I work with (and the awesome volunteers that we have)! I also love helping people with their donations. It is something new every day which keeps it fun and interesting!
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. The people! The people that I work with, the people that volunteer, the people that bring in their donations, and the people that come in to the store and shop. 2. There is something new every day that comes in to the store. 3. It feels so good to help people! It is a very rewarding job knowing that the end of each day you have done something, offered a service that is in turn helping out other people.
October 2015 Staff Spotlight: Melissa Black
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been with Someplace Safe for 5 years. I started out as a shelter advocate, and am now a Crime Victim Advocate for the Domestic Violence Program.
Motto or Personal Mantra: “Sometimes the questions are complicated and the answers are simple.”
Favorite or dream place to live: I would move back to Alaska in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, my family does not concur.
I'm happiest when: I am outdoors and away from anything technology based.
What I fear most: Clowns. *shudder*
I'm proudest of: My kiddos.
People would be surprised to know: I dislike confrontation.
Pet peeves: Clowns.
Favorite Movie: Rushmore – or anything Wes Anderson has his hands on.
Favorite Book: Watership Down
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Safety, Options and Hope – for EVERYONE. I am proud to work for an agency that provides services to all walks of life, regardless of who they are, what their background may be, or how they identify themselves.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Intimate partner violence is not a family issue, it is a community issue. Continue to educate yourself about the effects of violence in your community, and reach out to get or offer help!
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: The opportunity to help empower victims of crime and intimate partner violence. Being able to be a part of the transformation from victim to survivor is what keeps me going in this work.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Awesome co-workers 2. Giving a voice to victims 3. Never having the same day twice!
September 2015 Staff Spotlight: Lisa Thom
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 1 year, Crime Victim Advocate
Motto or Personal Mantra: It is what it is.
Favorite or dream place to live: Outside of the USA.
I'm happiest when: I’m out of time for family adventure.
What I fear most: Car accidents.
I'm proudest of: I don’t know, it changes day to day.
People would be surprised to know: I am a very unreliable volunteer.
Pet peeves: Lying.
Favorite Song: Underdog, by Spoon, for now, anyway.
Favorite Movie: Lars & the Real Girl
Favorite Book: The Book of Splendor
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Banana Tour in Asia. If you knew how many varieties of bananas really exist, it would be your dream vacation too.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A safe place to turn to when there’s nowhere else to go, or even when there is.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That our clients are just like everyone else in the community. I would guess that everyone in the community knows someone who has been victimized, but doesn’t feel comfortable sharing their experience with friends or neighbors. I think if more people shared their experiences, then more survivors would come out of the woodwork. It’s hard to share though, and I understand that.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: When I go to work in the morning, I know I will do something important for someone else.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: I get to help people, I get to walk to work, and I appreciate having supportive coworkers and supervisors.
August 2015 Staff Spotlight: Michael Munn
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been with Someplace Safe a little over a year, and am currently Manager of the Alexandria Thrift Store. I see lots of different things. It’s interesting.
Motto or Personal Mantra: Whatever it takes. Just do it.
Favorite or dream place to live: Manzanita, Oregon. Would settle for anywhere on the Oregon Coast though.
I'm happiest when: I am either watching sports or riding on my motorcycle.
What I fear most: Snakes and Aliens.
I'm proudest of: Our store’s teamwork and effort. It’s been a great first month as manager because of it.
People would be surprised to know: That I rarely thrift shop.
Pet peeves: Waiting for someone to try and find the closest parking spot possible while I wait in the passenger seat.
Favorite Song: Blue Sky, Allman Brother’s Band
Favorite Movie: Apocalypse Now
Favorite Book: Probably an Atlas
Favorite or Dream Vacation: Traveling over the course of a year to the biggest sporting events while taking in other things along the way.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Everyone doing what they can to help make the world a safer place.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That this work reaches a larger number of people than one may think. It’s amazing how many different people have their own story and have been helped over the course of SPS’s existence.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Besides the cause itself, I enjoy how “fresh” the job can be and the pace of work. Day’s tend to go by very fast in a thrift store kind of environment.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1) Being able to take donated items such as furniture and watch them go directly to someone in need. 2) Getting to know our customers on a regular basis and help them find items they’ve been looking for. 3) Working as a community partner with other agencies and causes.
July 2015 Staff Spotlight: Rilee Moulton
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I started working at the Somplace Safe Thrift Store in Morris in October of 2014. I am now the manager of the Morris Thrift Store.
Motto or Personal Mantra: It is kind of cliché, but "Follow your passion." Basically, find what makes you excited about life--and do that.
Favorite or dream place to live: Minnesota for sure. Otherwise I would have gotten out a long time ago!
I'm happiest when: I am happiest when I am in nature--camping or hiking with my dog.
What I fear most: Spiders. Ask any of my co-workers or my fiancé.
I'm proudest of: I am pretty proud of being a first generation college undergraduate.
People would be surprised to know: I have never flown before.
Pet peeves: People in the kitchen when I am cooking.
Favorite Song: Wonderwall by Oasis
Favorite Movie: Beatlejuice
Favorite Book: This changes all the time. Right now, I would have to say "The Lord of the Rings" series.
Favorite or Dream Vacation: I really want to visit northern California and the Pacific Northwest.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe works to create "someplace safe for everyone." To me, this vision means that creating safe places in our communities is important for everyone. Which calls each of us to become active participants in creating and maintaining these spaces.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I would like the broader community to know that everything that people contribute to this organizations stays local and helps local people in our communities.
What I like best about working for Someplace Safe: Being able to work with people in the Morris area /community to help create safe places/spaces for everyone.
The Top 3 Highlights of my job: 1. Knowing that I am helping someone everyday that I am here. 2. The customers--they make me laugh and they care a lot about what we do at Someplace Safe. 3. My co-workers--everyone here brings something different to the store and they are all a lot fun to work with every day.
March 2015 Staff Spotlight: Sandi Andersen
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Almost 5 months
I'm happiest when: I absolutely love spending time with my kids and grandchild. When I’m not doing that I love to read, crochet and scrapbook.
Favorite Book: I have several favorite authors. James Patterson, Iris Johanson and many others, Seems like I always have my nose stuck in a few books at the same time.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace safe is exactly what its name is. A place where people who have been a victim or have survived domestic violence or abuse can go to , to seek help, advice or even a shoulder to lean on in tough times.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Thank you. Without continued support we would not be able to do what we do.
February 2015 Staff Spotlight: Beth Peltier
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I have been with Someplace Safe since October 2008.
I'm happiest when: Play with my grandchildren, go for a pontoon ride, cards with friends, and an occasional trip to the Casino.
Favorite Movie: This is a tough one but I read everything I can, my favorite movie would be a tie between Fried Green Tomatoes and To Sir with Love.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe means there are options for those who feel as though all is lost. It also gives me a feeling of meaningfulness in my life when I am able to help a victim in need.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: This work is so important to our community as we need to teach our youth that violence is not right. I feel fortunate that I live in a community that is very supportive of my work and Someplace Safe as a whole.
January 2015 Staff Spotlight: Jeanine Thompson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Since March 1, 2010
I'm happiest when: What free time? Spending time with family and keeping up with all the extra-curricular activities that they are involved in.
Favorite Movie: August Rush
Favorite Book: Bible, Pride & Prejudice
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: “Safe Haven” – Assisting and providing the services to victims who walk into our office, referred by others or calling; giving them the “safety, options, and hope” that they have been searching for or inquiring about. Being able to empower people is very rewarding!
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: From the stand point of a crime victim advocate – we can always look from the outside in – trying to make people to conform to what we think is right but when we give people safety, options, hope and the support that they need ; it will reduce the victimization in their lives or from becoming a victim again. Giving victims the freedom to make that choice and giving them the support they need – in the time of need – will empower them in a direction of a healthy, abuse free environment. It takes a community to build a village and when everyone does their part; it brings success and betters the lives of others! The hand can’t say to the foot “I have no need of you!” otherwise the body would not be complete! When we work together to accomplish common goals someone’s life is changed forever!
December 2013 Staff Spotlight: Michelle Ellerbusch
Length of time with Someplace Safe: 6 years. I was also an Advocate at the Someplace Safe Shelter prior to my current position
I'm happiest when: Run. Bake. Eat.
Favorite Movie: The X-Men movies.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: A safe, confidential place to go or call where crime victims can receive assistance and support.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Thank you for your continued support. Without the continued assistance and generosity of the community I would not be able to do the work that I do.
November 2013 Staff Spotlight: Kim Zimmerman
I'm happiest when: Spend time with my granddaughters, my two dogs and my Fiancé. I love to travel, camp and be outdoors especially by the water and/or mountains.
Favorite Movie: I love a good love story, a good comedy and almost any animated movie. I don’t think I have a favorite movie. But I love the reality shows on TV (Big Brother, Survivor & Amazing Race) and any of the CSI’s and of course SVU.
Favorite Book: Any book by Stephen King.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: The first thing that comes to mind is safety and relaxation- the ability to finally take a breath. I think it is the perfect name for our agency; we are someplace safe for victims to come to and get the support and information that they need to make decisions that need to be made. We are someplace safe for them to come to, we will not judge them, we are only here to help and support them in whatever decision they make, and we will always be here for them – a safe place that is confidential and reliable.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I often here “I don’t know how you can do that, isn’t it hard or sad to see the pain every day?” And yes they are correct to some degree, it can be hard, but my job also allows me to see the triumphs and the huge successes these survivors overcome. I understand this job is not for everyone, but that doesn’t mean everyone can’t help. I want the community to understand they can help in so many other ways, such as making donations, volunteering their time in so many different aspects and the most important is just supporting the victims and believing the victims, which is the biggest help they can be. Victims need to know the community supports them and believes them, that is what will allow them to come forward more and seek the help they need and to also keep the offenders accountable which will also hopefully reduce anyone from becoming another victim. We need to put the blame on the offenders, not the victims. Parents need to educate themselves and allow their children to be educated on how not to become an offender or a victim and how to see the signs and behavior before something happens so they can step in and stop it from happening.
October 2013 Staff Spotlight: Drew Israels-Swenson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Since July 2013
I'm happiest when: Movie, playing cards or board games , cooking and of course thrift shopping.
Favorite Movie: I love stupid action films like 2012, Long Kiss Goodnight and anything with Godzilla
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It means the opportunity to use my skill set to benefit an organization that does incredible work.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: We have been incredibly blessed to have such a supportive community. The variety and quality of donations is astounding. We are always looking for volunteers who are willing to give of their time to aid us in our mission.
September 2013 Staff Spotlight: Orin Follingstad
I'm happiest when: Gardening, Playing with my Boston Terriers, Enjoying the outdoors.
Favorite Movie: Star Trek- all of them
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: It’s a way for me to help support my community.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I work for helping children and parents maintain a on-going relationship and the support of people that were victimized by crime and violence.
August 2013 Staff Spotlight: Erin Koehntop
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Employed for 5 years also did my internship and volunteered prior to employment
I'm happiest when: I like to spend my free time with friends and family laughing and having a good time. I also like to do anything outside, fishing, baking and cooking.
Favorite Book: It’s hard to pick a favorite; I almost always have my nose in a book.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is an organization compiled of people who genuinely care about other people. Who go above and beyond what is expected of them, to advocate for the safety and security of the people we serve. They also push for social change, educate the communities we live in, and lead by example.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Domestic and Sexual Violence are not “family issues” anymore. The community needs to speak out about these issues and recognize that it is happening in our neighborhoods and homes.
July 2013 Staff Spotlight: Becki Jordan
I'm happiest when: Traveling, Spending time with friends & family, Shopping for fun & unique things, Meeting new people
Favorite Movie: Favorite movies of all time: Grease & The Boy in the Plastic Bubble, can we say John Travolta?!
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: The work that we do at Someplace Safe WOULD NOT be possible without the support of our communities, so I guess I would like to say Thank You! And keep up the great work! And never stop standing up for what you know and believe in!
June 2013 Staff Spotlight: Emilyn Haugen
I'm happiest when: Four Wheeling, Gardening, Yoga
Favorite Movie: Labyrinth, Directed by Jim Henson
Favorite Book: Peyton Place, authored by Grace Metalious
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Someplace Safe is an amazing organization whose Vision and Mission is important to me. They are working towards a future which brings hope and empowerment to all.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: The work I do is important to me. I love working for Someplace Safe and feel very fortunate to be part of such an amazing organization.
May 2013 Staff Spotlight: Utonia ‘Toni’ Raaf
Length of time with Someplace Safe: Big Stone County Crime Victims Advocate for over 7 years
I'm happiest when: What free time? When I had free time, I loved walking (can’t jog anymore because of my knees), love quilting and sewing, and horseback riding.
Favorite Book: Long, long ago I loved reading books by John Sanford, Patricia Cornwell and any authors from MN.
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: Working for Someplace Safe has been so rewarding, empowering our clients to become strong, not just for herself/himself but also for their children.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I strongly believe in our mission: To create a safer world for everyone (even men!) we work to eliminate violence and oppression through advocacy, education and service, through safety, options and hope.
February 2013 Staff Spotlight: Catie Houck
I'm happiest when: I love spending time with family and friends. Having BBQs, going to the lake, going ice skating, bowling and mini golf with my son.
Favorite Movie: I love all Hallmark Movies….
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: I love my work. I love helping victims in need and seeing them become stronger through the process of working with them. My work means the world to me and the relationships that are made I treasure!
April 2013 Staff Spotlight: Lori Hanson
Length of time with Someplace Safe: I’ve been with Someplace Safe for about eight and a half years. My first position with the organization was answering the crisis line and providing administrative assistance to the Executive & Financial Directors. Throughout the years as my roles changed and the organization focused more on becoming strengths based, I was given the opportunity to be the Director of Operations.
March 2013 Staff Spotlight: Jenna Payne
I'm happiest when: Reading, and if I’m not reading I’m spending a significant amount of my pay check at Used Bookstores, especially Vikingland Books in Alexandria. I enjoy journaling, traveling, going to concerts (I’d go to one every weekend if I could). Also, eating as much sushi as humanly possible; I will one day turn into a beautiful pink salmon, douse myself in soy sauce and wasabi and devour myself!
What does Someplace Safe mean to me: I get to come work at a place primarily run by women and for women. Men seek our services and they are abused the same as women, I certainly acknowledge that and am more than happy to help any men in abusive relationships, but we do see more women than men. I love coming to a place with a positive feminine aura. I find that women and even men we help feel that when they come into our office. It’s a place of warmth, strength and compassion. It is very empowering to work with such strong and independent women and in turn to meet clients that find their voice and independence, through our services.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: That the work I do every day is exhausting and rewarding. That it keeps me up at night, but I still roll out of bed and come into work ready to help victims. I want them to know that we need the community’s support and so do our clients. We need them to stand in unity with us in our fight against violence, because we can’t win this fight alone.
January 2013 Staff Spotlight: Joan Taves
Favorite Book: The Bible with all the different versions out now one can read lots of it as a Novel – very interesting stories.. Self Help books and Inspirational. Reality info. I have really enjoyed many of them.
What would I like the broader community to know about the organization: Someplace Safe is a very rewarding program to be associated with as I see and witness all the support victims of all circumstances receive. I hadn’t realized all the ways the Someplace Safe is able to help victims and all of the areas we are involved with as a program. Also it is so great and nearly unbelievable to witness the attitude of unity and support among all of the employees in our 9 counties. The advocates have their whole hearts in what they do the help clients. It is also great to see how the community steps forward in support of dollars and items!
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